Do you tell your SO when you've been hit on?

posted 1 year ago in Relationships
  • poll: Do you tell your SO if you were hit on
    Sometimes, depends on the circumstance : (84 votes)
    37 %
    Pretty much always : (93 votes)
    41 %
    Not really unless it was like his friend or something : (39 votes)
    17 %
    Other : (9 votes)
    4 %
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    Buzzing bee

    I tell my SO whenever I get hit on: we laugh about it

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    831 posts
    Busy bee

    always, i tell my FI everything. i would want to know if some chick hit on him.

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    3009 posts
    Sugar bee

    Only if it was a really funny occurance or super creepy. Otherwise I don’t even remember it.

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    8152 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I always tell my DH everything. 

    And for some reason it appalls me when someone hits on me, because I’m married.   Naive, I know, but it pisses me off; what the hell is wrong with some guys, anyway?

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    150 posts
    Blushing bee

    I used to tell him all the time, in an effort to be 100% honest.  But I have found that unless it’s associated with a funny story, its not worth mentioning on its own.  He’s not the jealous kind, luckily!

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    314 posts
    Helper bee

    I always do because I hate being hit on and I’m always a rude bitch when it happens. Boyfriend likes to hear my bitch stories :)

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    Bumble bee

    I used to tell him until he told me how uncomfortable it makes him.  Now I don’t, unless it’s something he should know about (i.e. friend, or a celebrity–hey, it happened once!  Haha).

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    7804 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    for me it all depends on the circumstance – I was hit on recently at work and had to tell him because I’m 4 weeks from having a baby…I’m huge, married and pregnant! who does that? I loved every second of it because I can’t even remember the last time someone hit on me and I’ve been feeling quite disgusting lately.

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    606 posts
    Busy bee

    I always tell SO whenever I get hit on, esp. if it’s something really weird and funny like say if we’re at the mall together and we separate from each other at a department store. I’ll tell him and then we’ll both laugh and he’ll say “that’s kind of a compliment to me…that I have a beautiful and hot gf! :)

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    4172 posts
    Honey bee

    I tell him either if it’s RIDICULOUS the way the guy did it or if I think a friend will bring it up at a later date, otherwise it’s not worth bothering him about.

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    Honey bee

    I don’t tell him unless it’s an over-the-top example of someone acting the fool, and while I’ve never had one of his friends or my friends hit on me, I would probably tell him simply because of the existing relationships. But I’m not hiding the fact that I occasionally get hit on. It’s just not conversation-worthy. 

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    1468 posts
    Bumble bee

    No, why tell him and potentially upset him over something that means nothing to me?  He’s a wee bit jealous so I don’t play into it.

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