Do you think he's about to propose?

posted 2 years ago in Proposals
Post # 2
438 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

Maybe he’s planning a ringless proposal? Or had a ring come to him/found a deal? If he’s as drained as you say I can’t imagine he would have gotten a ring unless he had a separate fund set up. That being said maybe he’s started the proposal planning process and just wants to do something sweet for you at the beach. Otherwise, as I stated above, perhaps he does have a proposal planned! Obviously we can’t tell you for sure here, but all of those things are a positive sign of a proposal to come whether on vacation or a little bit later! 🙂 

Post # 3
87 posts
Worker bee

The signs sound about right and you never know he might have had some money stashed somewhere so you wouldn’t find it. But just in case don’t get your hopes up too high. I wouldn’t want you to be disappointed if nothing happens. But I wish you good luck!

Post # 4
802 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015 - Backyard Forest


It kind of sounds to me like he might be planning it all out so you’ll be surprised later on…he very well could have it planned for your vacation but I personally think you shouldn’t get your hopes up too much!

I got my hopes up last summer because my SO was asking me all the questions about my ring, what I wanted, the size, etc. and told me to figure it out soon. AAaaand here we are nearly a year later. I knew at the time he didn’t have the money, but kept thinking that all the signs were pointing to yes. 

In hindsight I think he was just planning well in advance so that when the time came closer, he wasn’t spoiling the surprise of when. 

Lately, he has been bringing up the wedding details a lot more, and it’s definitely on his mind. I know we’re getting close, but after a year of waiting I’ve certainly learned not to get squirrelly over little signs, because you just really NEVER know when it’s coming!

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