(Closed) do you think it'll happen soon-ish? (new here and it's a long one)

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1059 posts
Bumble bee

Sounds like something good is coming your way soon. Good luck – and so happy that you found someone who seems to bring out a better version of you!!!

Post # 4
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220 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@sellison27:  I think when you meet the right person it is amazing how clearly you can see that they were meant to be with you.  I was with someone for 8 years and was convinced that is what a relationship was supposed to be like….then one day I had enough and left, 3 months later I met the man I am going to marry in May. Funny thing is, I knew the night I met him that I was going to spend forever with him….now, with that being said, we have been together for 3 years and living together for 2 1/2 of those.  I love that we have had this time to get to know eachother, and for me we both needed that time to make sure we wanted to be together forever. We have a great relationship, not perfect but we have learned to argue and when to let the other cool off over night. Each day with him brings something new, and in my opinion, I would wait at least 2 years until marriage is seriously concidered. You are almost there, and for us, he proposed just after the 2 year mark.  It sounds like you have a good thing going for you, and especially since you were friends first. 

I would really talk to her, find out her reasonings for wanting to wait as long as possible. Is it her own insecurities? Finances? Knowing what her reservations are will help you better understand where you both stand on the matter. Good luck!!!!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@sellison27:  Sounds VERY promising. Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

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