(Closed) Do you think its strange when really skinny girls call other girls fat?

posted 7 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper

I think that all women should keep fat comments to themselves. It’s never ok to comment on another woman’s size, whether they’re commenting on how fat she is or how skinny she is. Neither is ok in my book. Women being catty towards other women is part of the reason why self esteem issues come about.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@2PeasinaPod:100% agree.

I hate when I see other women put each other down. It just makes everyone feel bad about themselves. 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

Fat or skinny–people shouldn’t comment on the size of other people’s bodies. Being called “skinny” is not such a compliment, either. I agree with 2PeasinaPod 100%.

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@2PeasinaPod wins the thread 🙂

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Strange…no.

Rude, bitchy, insensitive and completely uncalled for…yes.

Post # 10
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16217 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I think we all as women would be able to lead much happier lives and have much high senses of self if we would all stop commenting negatively on one another’s looks.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I agree with 2PeasinaPod and I just want to add the people that always do that have some type of insecurity about themself.  They may be “skinny”, but they may have other things they hate about themself.  So they call out (in an obnoxious and loud manner) what they think is their “perfect” part of themselves. 

It’s so unattractive.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@2PeasinaPod:  Word.

I’ll add that I also really hate hearing women criticize their OWN bodies.  Not only do  other people tend to hear it and go “wow, if she thinks she’s x, I must be super x!” but it promotes a culture of disrespecting our bodies.  I think it’s really hard to have good body image unless you’re respecting both your body and everyone else’s… and life is so, so much better when you’re not spending it hating the body you’re inside.

Post # 15
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Yes! I get so annoyed when people say these phrases: “I’m eating like a fatty today” “Look at you skinny minny”–haha not said to me. I have a friend that whenever she eats something unhealthy goes “I’m a fat-fat.” I only don’t say something because it’s to herself, but sheesh. Just eat the damn cheeseburger! End rant. 😉

I agree with all posters who have said some variant of “keep body image comments to yourself.”

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I think @2PeasinaPod is right–women shouldn’t put down each other’s bodies.  And I agree with @RR (sorry, I don’t know how to do the link to a previous post in my posts!) that this girl is probably insecure and feels like talking about how skinny she is in comparison to Snooki will make her look and feel better.

Can we talk about how Snooki is an orange-colored, constantly drunk, hot mess?  I think that’s more of an issue than her weight.

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