Post # 1
Most women say they want a huge diamond to follow the proposal…well I actually got one and now I’m wondering if it’s too big. I have a 4.5 ct diamond ring. Do you think it’s too much??? I would love to see some other 4 ct. Rings.
Post # 3
It is gorgeous but for my day to day life it is not functional for me to have something that large. I think it is up to you and your preference.
Post # 4
This isn’t my engagement ring but it is the one of someone I know. I believe the center stone is a 4.3 ct cushion cut.
Post # 5
@dynomite: I think that whatever you want and love is perfect for you. That being said I would think about getting a smaller ring for when you’re out places you don’t want to invite possible problems (esp. if you’re travelling). It will attract attention which is awesome, just make sure it’s not attracting attention from the wrong types of people. And for god’s sake make sure to insure the hell out of it (at that size you might consider taking out a seperate insurance policy since many plans only cover up to a certain amount). It’s a beautiful ring! Congrats!
Post # 6
It’s possible for me -personally- to have too big of a ring, but I think it’s totally up to the person wearing it! Yours looks amazing!
Post # 7
For me, yes. I want something that I can wear everyday that won’t get in my way. I do think that its possible to look gaudy when a ring gets too big, but I think it also depends on the person. Typically when I see unusually large rings I assume that they’re costume jewelry, unless I’m in an area where those size stones are the norm. Personally I would not want any bigger than 1.5-1.75 for myself, but I also wear a size 4 and I think that makes a big difference.
OP, I think your ring is gorgeous!!
Post # 8
I think Khloe Kardashian’s ring is too big lol.
But yeah I mean I’ve never seen a 4 ct ring in person but I do fee like people would be judging me. And I’m not well off, so I’d want some of that money lol.
Post # 9
I had a ring that was 2.75 carets in my first marriage, and it turned me off of e-rings for good. Even with the ring insured, I didn’t like worrying about whether someone would hurt me to get the ring. I felt strongly enough about it that I decided not to have an e-ring at all in my second marriage. So I can’t imagine wearing 4 carets.
Post # 11
@dynomite: i love it! i love a lot of bling and full finger coverage.
Post # 12
@dynomite: I had a friend who couldn’t wear her e-ring and wedding ring together because it was too big. She made sure everyone know too… just because of her I have to say that it is possible to have a ring that is too big
Post # 13
Definitely possible. I tried on a ring that was about 2 carats total and it was too big for me. I have small hands and short fingers (ring finger is about 5.5). I told my Fiance that I definitely don’t want something that big. I think a carat is good for me, maybe 1.5 with side stones. Even .75 would be ok with me because still looks like a good size on my fingers.
Post # 14
@highschoolhoneys: i was going to say the same thing, It looks like a cluster ring to me also. I love large rings and if its a cluster ring it’s not really the same as if it was a 4 carat diamond.
ETA it looks great on you though so if its comfortable I wouldn’t worry
Post # 15
To answer your thread question, yes, it is definitely possible. But, that “too big” point is relative to what is worn by others around you.
I thought about this when we were choosing my ring and realized that picking a “normative” size for the people around me was a better choice for me than getting the biggest high quality diamond we could afford. That way, I step as much out of what I call the “carat races” as possible, races in which I posit that there are no winners, all participants inevitably lose. There are social “messages” that wearing a larger diamond than others around you sends out, and I didn’t want to send those messages. At least some people around the comparatively-large-diamond-wearer will assume that the wearer either actively intends to send those messages, or at least isn’t bothered by the fact that those messages are being sent.
Another factor is aesthetics… there are diamonds I would think are too large to wear in a daily ring, even if they were abundant and cost $5. It’s a matter of gilding the lily. However, I’d still find a use for those large diamonds…. such as setting them into a gorgeous evening necklace!
Post # 16
Yes, that is way too much bling for me, but some women are the exact opposite.