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    HumarockBride    January 2, 2010   Boston, MA

    It's looking like I am going to be out of a job in the next few weeks ... and I'm already thinking about how to keep myself busy while searching for a new one. I know that I'll need to focus on finding a job, but one can only do that for so  many hours in a day. I was thinking about volunteering -- but I wasn't sure where or what to do. In the past I have done some work at an after school program as well as at a food bank ... I'm leaning more towards doing something with kids.

    Do you volunteer? What do you do? Do you enjoy it? Have you ever had a bad experience volunteering?

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    We volunteered back in college. In order for me to do so now, I'd have to have time and feel very strongly about something. I frankly don't have time. I choose to write a check nowadays, and I wish I could block off a Saturday but I simply can't. I also make it a point to get my car washed by people doing fundraisers for various causes, etc.

    I had lots of fun doing it back in college. We raised enough money as a sorority to sponsor two children and their families for Make a Wish. My DH's house supported MDA and we always made a point of attending the BBQ's and buying the food (even if we didn't like it) just b/c we felt it was right. 

     
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    Yin    June 2, 2010   Delaware

    The food bank and meals on wheels are the two major programs in my area which are always in need of some help.  If you want to work with kids, then try going to some local schools in the area and ask whether or not they need volunteers for special programs.

    Back in high school I used to be a volunteering machine, and it is very rewarding and satisfying.  I always left with a smile on my face knowing that I had helped someone out that day. On the flip side, there will be times when you volunteer and instructions may not be so clear on what you are supposed to do.  It just requires being persistent and asking questions to clarify.

     
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    linzella    June 20, 2009   Austin, Texas

    I volunteer for specific events that the American Cancer Society hosts, but my work-travel schedule doesn't allow me to have an on-going commitment.  Once I'm no longer traveling, I'd love to volunteer for the local hospice.  A few years ago, my mom had terminal cancer and we used at-home hospice care for a several months until she passed away.  It was a tremendous service.  In addition to the paid staff (doctors, nurses, etc.), there were hospice volunteers that changed my life.  I can see how it wouldn't be for everybody (it's a little intense), but volunteers would schedule a time to drop by the house to visit with or read to my mom.  My mom loved getting to see new faces since she was stuck at home, and my dad and I appreciated having a little time away from things to process everything.  Our family was in such a vulnerable state, but the kindness and support of those people helped us all feel less alone.  Wow, I'm getting weepy just typing this!

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    I volunteer about 5 hours a week at our local library.  I do things like shelve books, check people out, and help people find books/use the referrence system.  This is a recent thing; a friend of a WB friend suggested that if I want to be a libararian, I should volunteer to build up my experience.  :)  I've been doing it for a few weeks, and I really have a good time doing it!  Maybe you could help your library with kids' events or volunteer in the children's section (or children's library if your system is big enough)?  Libraries are really suffering from county, city, and state budget cuts and need more volunteers than ever to stay open.

    Also, one of our friends is SUPER involved in the community, so we end up helping her out with projects sometimes.  This year, we've helped out with a couple "clean up the lake" efforts, making a community garden, and an Earth Day celebration.

     
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    KateMW    8.30.03   Birmingham

    I volunteer through the Jr. League. We deal mainly with women and children's charities. It's good, though sometimes it feels a bit like a sorority.

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    HumarockBride    January 2, 2010   Boston, MA

    Forgot I posted this one!

    Thanks for the responses ladies. 

    I think the library would be an awesome place to volunteer because I love books and I always end up buying them instead of just borrowing!  If I'm already there doing some volunteering then I can get some books or even DVDs! 

    I don't think I'm "strong" enough to do hospice care, but perhaps in the background doing paperwork or stuff, I'm sure that could be helpful! 

    I also have been thinking that I might want to work doing non-profit in the future ... so this could be helfpul in getting a full time paying job with a non-profit as well! 

     

     
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    vintage2010    April 10, 2010  

    I volunteer at the local community theater. They are always in need of ushers, people who can lend a hand with sewing costumes or painting sets.  I also volunteer on a scholarship committee. I'm the chair of the dance that raises 60,000 a year.  Talk about pressure!  LOL.  And then we help at the church when we can.  I enjoy volunteering but I've become strecthed a little to thin and pland to resign from chairman of the dance and just help when needed.

    There is a charity group on Facebook that you can join that informs you of upcoming events in your area that need volunteers.  Sorry I can't remember the name but I'm sure you could do a search for it.

     
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    missomally    July 11, 2009   Missouri

    I'm currently on the development board of a local childrens center/school for kids with autism, Aspergers and behavioral disorders.  Board responsibilities are mostly fund-raising and event planning, but I do get to help out at the school a lot too.  I read to the kids a couple times a year, attend their programs, musicals and pagents, serve them lunch on their "special dress-up day" and help teach table manners, and even just hang-out at the residence and watch TV with them.  I know the fund-raising stuff is what helps make the place run, but spending time with those kids makes me realize why I'm doing it (and helps me not feel so bad about begging my friends and co-workers to donate)!

     
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    ilovenycmissie    September 2009   nyc

    yes i love to stay active and doing good deeds; I get perks withthem too sometimes  

     

     

    yes I volunteer at the theater--to watch off broadway for free

    I used to volunteer for meals on wheels--except I got a backache

    I did dress for success, nice people

    NYC marathon they hosted  a party which  was very nice- got free raincoats

    volunteered at charity events for breast cancer--get to watch fashion shows

    another charity event--got to watch another  fashion show

    another chairty event for muscular dystrophy--got to see NFL football players

     

    lots of fun, you do good and sometimes get some perks

     

     
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    minneapolitan    11/7/2009   Minneapolis, MN

    I volunteer in the Mpls public schools for their adult ELL program, basically helping new immigrants with their English.  I looooove it.  During the school year I went one night a week, but now since it's summer there's no class.

     
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    fizicsGirl    8/1/2009   Michigan

    What about the children's hospital?  I used to volunteer in the neonatal intensive care units.  That, of course, is not for everyone...I didn't mind b/c my mom is a neonatalogist so I think it's hopeful to see premature babies getting a chance.  But I do know that the hospital also had tons of volunteers to read and play with older kids in long term care.  There's also the Ronald McDonald House where one of my college roommates really enjoyed volunteering.  You might also consider the Make a Wish foundation...though wish-granting is fairly competitive.  I was selected as a wish granter, but over 3 years I was never high enough on the list to actually get called to grant one.  They often need help in the office etc though.  Have you considered Big Brothers and Big Sisters?  That's a great program and an opportunity to have a big impact on one person...and form a lasting bond that will possibly teach you more than you expect.

     
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    HumarockBride    January 2, 2010   Boston, MA

    The thing about volunteering for me is that I definitely want to do it while I am out of work ... but it is going to be hard for me to commit to something because I don't know what my next job will be.

    I would LOVE to volunteer at  Children's Hospital but the Boston one is seriously SO competitive to become a volunteer for!  My sister was a patient there as a child and she wasn't even accepted to be a volunteer! it's crazy, but I understand because it is really a wonderful place to be if you have to be in a children's hospital.

    I think something like a library or a food bank might be best since I'll have the time while I am out of work, but most likely not once I get a new job. 

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    My political group I'm a member of (yes, we're conservative) have volunteered in the past for habitat for humanity, and a number of local charities.  Right now we're helping some new local public schools bring in books to populate the school's libarary.

    I feel as though with my job I volunteer a bit each day..but can tell you that a hospital volunteer is ALWAYS needed.  I have in the past (during college) volunteered at a local children's hospital and loved it!

    Also check out and see if you have a local TWIGS chapter that's associated with your area's children's hospital.  I used to be an officer of my group in TN and we also put together the festival of trees and a 10 day event which was during the holidays and it was a blast and we raised a ton of $$ to help our children's hospital.  We raised so much we bought a brand new ultrasound 3d machine! 

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    mhirni    September 12, 2009   Oakland, CA

    I volunteer at a local science museum two Saturdays a month.  It is fun!  I greet visitors when they come in, help them orient themselves and plan their day, tell them what the different planetarium & theater shows are, and just generally be there when visitors have questions.

     
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    star    October 11, 2009   New York, NY!

    We foster kittens as our good deed! We hold on to them all week and then take them back to get adopted on the weekends. It's fun and it makes us feel good, but it's sometimes really hard work and takes lots of patience!

     
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    dmitchell08    October 2009   Baltimore

    I volunteer and absolutely looove it. We do a few things, I used to be a community organizer so I still go back to my old neighborhoods and volunteer. We currently volunteer at block projects, block clean ups, rebuilding of parks, We also do Habitat for Humanity and we also do work for a local animal rescue.

     

    So I am all about volunteering! Its good for the soul

     
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    as a lawyer i do wills for first responders and various legal docs for same-sex couples.  i truly enjoy that.  i always wished i had time to foster dogs.  perhaps when we move and have more space.

     
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    pinwheelspoprocks    October 10, 2009   Los Angeles/CA

    I have a sticky pad that says "stop me from volunteering". Seriously, it's a little addictive.

    I run seminars on how to navigate the volunteer world and what ops are available to you that best match your needs and interests. I would check out volunteermatch.com  - they'll have tons of specific postings for your area that you can sort through by various filters.  Sometimes it's good to try something out first before you commit yourself to a program, training etc.. 

    Myself, I volunteer for several sexual assault and violence intervention programs on a local and national level (RAINN, JoyfulHeart-national), for WriteGirl, a female empowerment writing program for girls 13-18 y.o. and I am an advisor for the Junior League of Los Angeles.  If you want to meet great women and gain a ton of practical experience, I highly recommend Junior League. It has a funny reputation in some areas but I think it's fantastic. The women are incredible.

     
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    bluespurrs    August 7, 2009   South-central PA, USA, Earth

    I am on the board of directors for a local nature sanctuary plus I run a private feline sanctuary for feral/dumped cats.

     
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    KathyQ    May 8, 2009   DC/destination wedding in Scotland

    I don't volunteer regularly but I want to.  In the past, I've volunteered at food banks, sorting donations, which I've always enjoyed.  I also like doing river cleanups and other types of environmental restoration projects.  Volunteering at a library or museum sounds like fun, too.

     

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