(Closed) do your bridesmaids know your wedding date?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Does she have memory problems?  Most adults would write it down or put something on their computer calendar instead of asking you 5000 times.

Post # 4
Member
2859 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

I’m not sure if my girls remember the date, but my fiance sure as hell can’t remember it. Sigh.

Post # 5
Member
1545 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

MMM they better or else they better tell me now if they wanna be in it!

Has she heard of a pen? she needs to write it down and maybe stick it somewhere she can see it every day or once in a while.

They should know since they are in the wedding, I’m sure she doesnt want to double book herself so she should write it in her planner.

Post # 6
Member
1021 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

yes, they do. sometimes they give me countdown updates on my facebook. it’s pretty amusing.

Post # 7
Member
690 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would put it in huge letters on top of every e-mail you send her.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Umm has she heard of this little thing called a day planner or calendar? lol.  That’s odd that she keeps asking you, it’s almost as though she wants you to know it isn’t important enough to remember.  I’m not trying to start something, I’m just saying, short of having memory loss issues, I find it hard to believe she *actually* forgets your wedding date every month lol.

Post # 9
Member
2066 posts
Buzzing bee

If she’s super busy she must rely on a calendar.  Send her a meeting invite on google calendar or lotus notes or outlook or whatever she uses. 

Post # 10
Member
1732 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

The bmaids do, but the GM are clueless … even after save the dates went out.  She will be there, don’t worry!

Just remember that your wedding day will never be as high a priority to someone else as it is to you.  She’s not forgetting on purpose or to be offensive/rude.  It happens even among closest friends.

Post # 11
Member
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Hmm, does she HAVE one of your STDs on her fridge or something? Maybe she really just has a bad memory and needs visual reminders. Or maybe she’s been asked to do other things that weekend and just wants to check. I know I do the latter when it comes to other friends weddings quite a bit.

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2010

At first one of my BMs couldn’t remember but she was busy planning her own wedding. Now that she’s married she’s got it down 🙂 There is one groomsman that I have to remind all the time though. He even took the wrong weekend off of work AFTER the STDs and invites went out.

Post # 14
Member
7152 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yes, they do. I would be offended if they didn’t. She should write it in her planner or something.

Post # 16
Member
1732 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oh that would have me worry.  Is she normally flighty?

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