Post # 1
This was the first Christmas I received gifts from my future in laws, and I was surprised that they spent about the same amount on both Fiance and myself. However, I noticed that future brother in law spent about $75 on Fiance and $20 on me. Does this type of thing change after you are married or do some family members never gift both of you equally? I’m curious to see what experiences other people have with this.
Post # 3
I voted other. Usually we get gifts for both of us, not individual ones.
Post # 4
None of the adults exchange presents in DH’s family. Only the kids get presents.
Post # 5
My husband def got more gifts from his family then I did but I was not expecting much anyway – we did however get several gifts to the two of us which was nice.
Post # 6
Fiance got TONS of gifts from his parents. I got one, and it wasn’t even a good gift. But, it’s whatever. I don’t expect much from them anyway…..
Post # 7
- Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016
It depends on the people and the year (: The first year we were dating they gave me a $50 bill last minute because they forgot I was coming. I also didn’t get a stocking. But as the years (this was our 4th Christmas together) went on they’ve started making the presents between us a little more equal. One of his grandmas doesn’t give me a gift, and the other usually spends about the same on both of us. His brother has always spent $20 more on me than my SO hahah. It just depends (:
Post # 8
Fiance asked that his family not get him anything this year and instead buy for me and the kids. I didn’t know he was doing that. It is rather sweet 🙂
Post # 9
I had to go with other – For the most part gifts are shared between couples to save money.
Post # 10
My IL’s always spend more on Darling Husband and his brother than they do me and my SIL, but we still make out pretty decent. My BIL & SIL used to spend around the same amount on Darling Husband and I (normally a $50 gc or something) but in recent years they’ve cut back. Last year they spent probably half of what they gifted Darling Husband with on me and this year neither of us got anything (well, besides 3 copies of the same framed picture). His grandmother always sends him $100 and this year I got $50. Heck of an upgrade from last year when I got what we refer to as “the puke scarf” (it looked like it was covered in vomit but it was actually just really ugly).
Post # 11
We usually get joint gifts. We stopped doing gifts with all of our sibling because there are too many so we just receive gifts from our parents and grandparents.
Post # 12
SO gets more, but that’s fine. His mum crocheted me a handbag, it’s amazing! And I really wanted a new one. It’s the same with my side: I get more, but SO still got something he really wanted from my family.
Post # 13
FI’s parents spend more on him than they do on me, but that doesn’t bother me at all. His family is more than generous at Christmas time as well as the rest of the year. My parents spend more on me than they do on Fiance. I don’t expect his parents to spend the same amount of money on both of us when Fiance is their child!
I did spend more on my brothers for Christmas than I did on my SILs, but I always try to get something nice for them!
Post # 14
We get a few joint gifts but no, no one gifts us equally.
Post # 15
my FI’s family always spent more on him, and i never minded. but i think this year it was all equal between us.
my family didn’t give Fiance gifts, then they’d give him a little, and now we all get the same. my parents gift us with cash so it’s easy to compare. hehe
Post # 16
Both my family and FI’s family gifted us an equal amount. FI’s family actually gifted me the same amount as him last year (our first Christmas together) but my family didn’t gift Fiance the same amount until this year.
Like other PPs mentioned, we also get gifts given to us as a couple. One of those this year was a Keurig, then a variety of Kcups to use.
For those who don’t get equal gifts to their Fiance, does it bother you at all?