Post # 1
All the money we are spending on the wedding, the money my parents are spending that they dont have but insist on spending, all the presents people give us, all the travelling people are doing to take part int he bachelorette party, bridal shower, ect. My wedding is nothing more or less than any other girls’ I know, and when they have all these events and spend all this money, I don’t bat an eyelid. Why is it that for my wedding, though excited about it, I feel guilty like I don’t deserve all these things and I am just putting people out?
Post # 3
I couldn’t tell you. I know I don’t mind spending money on others to celebrate and it seems like you didn’t either so it there’s no reason to feel bad?
Post # 4
Agree with above poster. I definitely don’t feel guilty…not sure why you do – probably would be something only you can answer?
Post # 5
I didn’t feel guilty until my younger sister got breast cancer last month. She’s also my Maid/Matron of Honor. Now some of the things I was sooo worried about before feel kind of insignificant and frivolous in the grand scheme of things. =(
Post # 6