Post # 1
You got engaged?
I feel we used to have a lot in common and laugh a lot and be interested in everything each other had to say. Now that we are engaged I feel like it has all changed. I don’t know if its in my head or if its because I have been finding the wedding planning so stressful and irritating instead of enjoyable and its just making me feel that way but I really do feel like everything complately changed like a month or two after we got engaged.
Did anyone else feel this way when they were engaged? DOES anyone else feel this way? If so does it pass after the wedding?
I love my FH with every piece of my heart but hell I do NOT like this feeling. It’s driving me crazy.
Post # 3
This happened to me a few months after we engaged. It is very easy to get wrapped up in wedding planning and forget the whole reason you’re doing all the crazy planning. I try to make an effort now to spend extra time with him and include him in more activities. It’s nice to snuggle and refresh the love!
Post # 4
I haven’t felt that way yet. I’ve actually felt closer to FI than ever before. But then, I havent done much planning at all yet lol. So, i bet when I get fully involved in planning and get stressed out I’ll feel the same as you.
Post # 5
I think I got my “cold feet” a couple months after we got engaged. Went through a period where I was stressed with planning (we were only engaged 9 months, so we jumped in full throttle), and when he did annoying things, it was like…. you’re going to be annoying UNTIL DEATH DO US PART. But it passed!
Post # 6
Honestly, I feel like we’ve gotten closer. I think it has also helped that we are having a long engagement (22 months), so we’ve been able to enjoy some time being engaged before jumping into wedding planning. Now that we’re really getting into planning, we’re making sure to set some time aside for talking about the wedding and some time where we take a break from planning.
Post # 7
i think FI an i just get sick of eachother. when hes home im trying to talk with him about wedding stuff and so he drowns himself in gameing. when he wants to talk im busy with my checklist and projects. we went on vacation last weed and had a solid 18 hours in the car with no electronics other than the gps and occasional calls from family and we re connected. when we got back he understood why i need his input on projects and i understnd why he likes his games but right after he gets home now we take 30 minutes not doing anything to just be together. it really helps and im not so engrossed in wedding and hes not all about his game.
Post # 8
@cr6zy: awww, i really like this. FI and i love to take little road trips (even if they are just day trips) because we always have the best conversations in the car for some reason.