(Closed) Does anyone else feel your relationship changed once…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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2701 posts
Sugar bee

This happened to me a few months after we engaged. It is very easy to get wrapped up in wedding planning and forget the whole reason you’re doing all the crazy planning. I try to make an effort now to spend extra time with him and include him in more activities. It’s nice to snuggle and refresh the love!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I haven’t felt that way yet.  I’ve actually felt closer to FI than ever before.  But then, I havent done much planning at all yet lol.  So, i bet when I get fully involved in planning and get stressed out I’ll feel the same as you. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think I got my “cold feet” a couple months after we got engaged.  Went through a period where I was stressed with planning (we were only engaged 9 months, so we jumped in full throttle), and when he did annoying things, it was like…. you’re going to be annoying UNTIL DEATH DO US PART.  But it passed!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

  Honestly, I feel like we’ve gotten closer. I think it has also helped that we are having a long engagement (22 months), so we’ve been able to enjoy some time being engaged before jumping into wedding planning. Now that we’re really getting into planning, we’re making sure to set some time aside for talking about the wedding and some time where we take a break from planning.

Post # 7
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921 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

i think FI an i just get sick of eachother. when hes home im trying to talk with him about wedding stuff and so he drowns himself in gameing. when he wants to talk im busy with my checklist and projects. we went on vacation last weed and had a solid 18 hours in the car with no electronics other than the gps and occasional calls from family and we re connected. when we got back he understood why i need his input on projects and i understnd why he likes his games but right after he gets home now we take 30 minutes not doing anything to just be together. it really helps and im not so engrossed in wedding and hes not all about his game.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@cr6zy: awww, i really like this. FI and i love to take little road trips (even if they are just day trips) because we always have the best conversations in the car for some reason.

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