I was just reading some awful fiance/ BF stories and got sad. But then decided to give a shout out to my man because he is good and smart and kind and makes me happy. I am very lucky and wanted to hear how happy and lucky others are. I needed some positive happy love stories.
Help me out!
My fiance is the best ever(for me)! When he comes home he comes up the stairs really fast and comes straight to me to give me hugs and kisses! He calls me his sweet lovely everything. He is the best cuddler ever! He tells me all the time that he wants me to be the best Jessie I can be. I can't believe I found somebody so friggin amazing!!!
My SO is pretty amazing. He is so caring, loving and patient. Especially when I'm not feeling well he goes above and beyond to make me feel comfortable. I can't imagine my life with out him.
I also have a WONDERFUL fiance! He is so amazing with his 2 year old neice that I can't wait until he can be the father of my children! He calls me multiple times a day just to say he loves me and is supportive of me no matter what I do. Last semester I quit my job to focus on school and he supported me 100%. He treats me like a princess and does anything and everything he can to make me happy. I absolutely adore him and can't imagine spending my life with anyone else.
Yay for a happy thread lol. My honey is amazing. That pretty much sums it up. He completes me in every way. He understands me, loves me for who I am and when I am at my worst. We work through our differences together which makes us stronger as a couple. We dont say nasty horrible things about/to each other. I truly adore him amd know he adores and loves me even though we arent that all over each other all the time kind of couple. He tells me he loves me every day (as do I) and we never go to bed angry. I hope we can continue this way even after we are married and have a family. We have lived together for 4 years and have been working out financial things for that time too so I think we are good there. I want to be that couple others look at in 50 years for advice:)
@RabbitBride: i cant write enough about the man im going to marry but i will say that i am no longer alone in this crule world i met the perfect man for me ;) and i thank God every night for him and his kids,family there so great. im a very lucky girl and i wish every girl and man was this lucky to find there best friend ;) i cant wait to be his wife.
I like seeing these happy relationship threads.
My FI is absolutely wonderful. He's beautiful inside and out. He saved me when I was so lost in the world. He encourages me everyday to do what makes me happy. He is so supportive and I couldn't have asked for a better man to marry. We're a lot alike, too. We were born 2 days apart and we are both gemini's whose horoscope symbol is the twin. It makes me wonder if that has something to do with how we found each other and how much alike we are. It's also strange because people ask us constantly if we are related. We get asked if we are brother/sister or twins. It's kind of alarming because normally we are holding hands when they ask! Hahah :)
@RabbitBride: I'm in! I had given up hope. I was over 40, divorced, with two kids when I met my FI. I simply cannot believe that a man like him even exists.
We are partners in everything we do. If I don't have time to do dishes, he does them. If he doesn't have time to do dishes, I do them. I go to make the beds, and they are done. I go to pay the bills, and they are done.
He knows when I am running low on the items that I personally use and he'll bring them home. He watches for what I need before I even know that I need it (like hand cream when my hands are chapped).
He disagrees with me...respectfully. He'll say "I tend to disagree..." and explain himself...no yelling...ever. We can tell each other when we are grumpy or hard to deal with. He calms me...it is like the chaos stops suddenly. He sits up late at night talking to me, no TV, and we laugh and laugh and laugh together. He goes and sees his friends. I go and see mine.
He helped me move my elderly parents nearer, he visits them to make sure they are alright if I am too busy. He pops out to the store to get things when needed. He turns off the 'big game' to listen about my day. He comes to the school with me to deal with my kids' teachers. He works as much at work, and at home, as I do.
He gets up earlier than I do (because I am a night owl) and he makes me coffee, brings it to me in bed, and warms up my car for me. If I am sick, he wards off my work calls, quiets the kids, puts me to bed and sits sroking my hair from my forehead until I fall asleep.
I could go on and on. Every day that I live with him, I find something more and more amazing about him. The best part is that when I go up to bed shortly, and snuggle into him, he will turn and whisper "I love you"...no matter how long ago he went to bed.
My FI is so wonderful. He makes my heart happy. He loves me with both his words and his actions. He wants nothing more than to take care of me, love me, and be a better man for me. I in turn want to be everything that he deserves in a woman. We make each other better because there is so much love between us.
Yay! Happy stories! My SO is amazing. We have been together for going on 7 years, starting when I was 17. We have been through it all, and through my parents divorce, I ended up without a home at 18 (they both moved away). I was in school, didn't have a job or anything to my name, but he supported me until I did in our first rented home (me at 18 and him at 20). We went through periods of having less than a dollar the bank account and sleeping on two pushed together little wood ottomans because we couldn't afford a bed, but somehow, my amazing and hardworking SO supports..means I took care of him.
Now he is almost 26 and I am about to turn 24, and I' m almost done with my bachelor' s degree, and he is always still doting on me and tells me constantly how much he loves me and how beautiful and perfect I am, always surprises me with little presents, goes food shopping with me, and anything else under the sun to make me happy. We recently bought our first house and our love may not be new, but we are both just as happy and in love as the beginning. We have had our hard times, and he has been a dumb boy here and there, but he is my everything - my rock and best friend. :) We just went ring shopping, soooo - my fairy tale wedding may not be far off..
My guy is all of the above but also SUCH a hard worker. He is in school full-time right now, with all day classes 2 days a week and in student teaching another 2 days a week. On top of all that, he works 40 hours a week to keep his job position and health/dental/vision insurance! He comes home literally wiped out every day from exhaustion. I have so much confidence that he will do whatever it takes to take care of me if times ever get tough one day! :)
My guy is all of the above but also SUCH a hard worker. He is in school full-time right now, with all day classes 2 days a week and in student teaching another 2 days a week. On top of all that, he works 40 hours a week to keep his job position and health/dental/vision insurance! He comes home literally wiped out every day from exhaustion. I have so much confidence that he will do whatever it takes to take care of me if times ever get tough one day! :)
Nope, I can't stand the man. That's why I'm marrying him. ;)
But in all seriousness, I think that like futuremrskgt's FI, my FI is a hard worker. He works for the Portland Water Bureau and does all of that crappy physically labor. You know those guys working their butts off to make sure everyone is taken care of that are outside in the pouring rain working in the mud? Yep, that's what FI does. I am so proud of him and everything he has accomplished.
I work part time and make minimum wage, and that man works his butt off every day to make sure we have great insurance, food on the table, and can live comfortably.
There aren't enough things that I can say about him. He really is my perfect (yet imperfect) man.
My FI is his own person. There is not a single person like him in the whole world. He's incredibly generous, loving, insightful, and passionate. He always makes me laugh, kisses me on the forehead, and asks me about my day. He knows me better than I know myself sometimes. We appear to be complete opposites but we really are kindred spirits. I cannot imagine moving forward in life without him.
@PacificMrs: Nope, I can't stand the man. That's why I'm marrying him. ;)
You took the words right out of my mouth!
Ended another engagement to a Mensa, self-employed high-earner over two years ago. Flung back a huge GIA diamond ring back in his face. He pursued me again after that swearing up and down that "he'd change" (he knows wtf he did). No, bud, you can't. Never looked back; best damn decision ever.
Took a year off from seeing anyone. Wanted more time off but ran into someone I had history with 7 years ago. 9mos later we are engaged. He is the exact opposite of the Ex. FI is loving, understanding, supportive, gives me space (I'm an academic and need a shitload of space for hours of studies or labwork, something the Ex never ever did); he is always there for me, even at my crankiest/worst. I had a major accident and fked up my face (heavy bruising, etc.) and he is sitting there with me letting me sleep and rubbing my head and talking about us being together forever while I looked so fked up (I'm talking both eyes blackened and whole face swollen). He works hard every day, no excuses, as do I, to keep the practical needs fulfilled. My FI is from humble beginnings with no "status" as my Ex had, but let me say one thing: I DON'T GIVE A SHIT, FI's character and endless love is just awe-inspiring. So yeah, I will NOT take it for granted, not one single day, how phenomenal he is. He's always #1 to me, and I never doubt I am to him. Us against the world, if need be.
My FI is definently amazing. After everything we've been through we're stronger and closer than ever. He can always make laugh when I'm mad at him and he takes care of me when I'm sick. I love him :)
I'm so glad to find a thread like this! I've decided to stay away from the Emotional and Relationship sub-forums because they start to depress me! They also make me realize how incredible my relationship is and how lucky I am to have my man!
Yay!!! Thanks for all the great stories bees! I am so happy that there are so many great fiances out there! Thanks for adding to the board!
I've been having some medical problems for the last few months that have been really affecting my sleep. I've been charting it for the last week in preparation for my hospital appointment next week - FH happened to look it over last night and realised how much it had been waking me up. He then promptly offered to get up first every morning until it's sorted, so I get an extra half-hour's sleep (which does make a difference!) <3
All three!
He's sooo smart... our friends (and I) get into the habit of using him like an encyclopedia and sometimes forget he doesn't know everything. He's so loving... and he treats me like a princess. Everything he does is to make a better life for me. I sincerely hope I never take him for granted, because he is so amazing and he is so determined in everything he does for me.
All three! Full of surprises! He brings me breakfast in bed (almost) everyday and he watches Say Yes to the Dress with me, what more could a girl ask for? :)
All three! He just got accepted into the Respiratory Therapist program for this coming fall, and I am so so proud of him! He's very affectionate and lovey, and always there for me. I've had lots of car problems, and he's always there to help. He gets up in the morning and starts my car (since I don't have a remote start anymore), does our grocery shopping, does the dishes and vacuums, etc. etc. etc.
He's just wonderful. :)
My SO is absolutely amazing. There are no words to describe him. I had a horrible xDH and he was controlling and disrespectful, rude, thought of himself...etc. My SO thinks of me first, it's hard to get used to. He helps me out around the house without me asking him to. He does laundry, cooks, cleans...It's all the little things that matter the most though. We've been together for 3 years, never had a disagreement or argument about anything. We get along so well and we have fun. He's been there for me through a lot of things. He's my rock. I don't know what I'd do without him. Most of all, that's most important...he's good to my kids and he loves them. And he tells me out loud that he loves them and cares for them. And that means a lot.
My FI is absolutely amazing! He's smart, kind, generous and not afraid to be him. He's always telling me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me. We spend all of our time together laughing and he would do anything for me (as I would him)! I lovee my Poohbear sooooooo much<3
Bump! =) (Come on guys, let's hear about those wonderful FIs or DHs, and then maybe show them what you put out there for the world to see!)
My man is amazing too!!! He works his butt off to support us because I am doing a law degree and only work part time. He never complains and he always hugs and kisses me and makes me feel loved. he is perfect for me because we compliment each other. I am bubbly, loud & sometimes fiery and easily stressed but he is always easy going, happy and relatively quiet. He always calms me in stressful situations. I simply lllllllllllooooooooovvvvvvvveeeeee him :-)
My fiance is INSASNELY incredible! When we first met, I was a struggling waitress living in a mobile home! He took me under his wing and brought me on these amazing trips to Buffalo (where he lived for many years post-college) and even one to the Bahamas! When he found out he was moving for work after three months of dating, he waited until he got a move date (three months later) and he asked me to move in with him! So I sold my mobile home, and moved to Massachuetts with him! When we got here, he encouraged me to look at jobs in my field (childcare, there's almost no privitized childcare in Vermont, where we met). I wound up getting this amazing job that I love that has insurance and a 401k and vacation time and paid holidays! My whole life is different now, and all because of how amazing my FI is!
My FI is the best man ever, period. I won't go into details because I get all mushy and stuff, but he seriously just is 100% what I was looking for. I love him so much. (:
@RiverBride13: awwww, mine watches "Say Yes to the Dress" with me too .
I love reading all of this happy mushy gushy stuff:)! My FI is the most wonderful man I've ever met. He always supports me through everything, and is really loving. When we first met, I was a mess. He really turned my life around and helped me to become a better person. He knows just what to say to make me laugh or smile when I am feeling down. He tells me how beautiful he thinks I am multiple times a day. He is very affectionate, and caring. He is one of the most likeable and polite people. He is going to school to get his Ph.D and is so motivated and driven. I admire him so much. I don't know how I got so lucky, but I would never want anyone else!
My guy out of nowhere today sent me a text message saying "you're very good to me and I appreciate you"
my hubby is amazing, he is everything I ever wanted in a man, he still sends me loving text messages when he's on a morning tea and lunch break at work, the moment he comes home i get a lovely kiss, he loves taking me shopping and encourages me to buy things that he knows i would like but don't cause we're saving money, he is a fantastic chef, he is a wonderful daddy to our puppy dogs and he can't wait to be a dad to a real baby :)
I love my FI so much. One day I called him on my lunch break, he had the day off work and I asked what he was doing. He said "Oh just DVRing 'Say Anything' for you". He knows that's my favorite movie :). Another time I was having a bad week at work and he sent me a vase of flowers with a note that said "Hope your week gets better". He gets off work before I do and I'll pick up the kids after work and he'll have recorded a bunch of movies for them to watch on the weekends. He's just sweet, thoughtful and the most perfect man.
I'm a few days late to the post, but I just wanted to add that I just adore my FH. He truely is amazing. He does so much for me without hesitation. He's the best thing ever!!!
Yay!! Love this!! I feel like the luckiest girl!
In six months I will marry my true love, my best friend and confidant, my protector, my staunchest advocate, the only person who can out shop me! :), my own personal comedian(24/7), a man that moves heaven and earth to make me happy, a remarkable father, a sincere gentleman, If I keep going there wouldn't be any room for anyone else to comment:) After 8 1/2 years I can't imagine my life without my him! Still so much in love!!! :)
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