(Closed) Does anyone else think this is rude?

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I do thin it was rude but not talking to them isn’t going to make things any better.  That’s just being passive agressive which gets you no where.

The sister’s bf is correct that it is traditionally the proud father who hands out the cigars.  But if he wanted to follow that then he should have started handing them out instead of the cousin, not just ignoring that they were there altogether.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

If he wanted to be the father that hands them out, he should have brought them and handed them out himself.

The girl is only 17, she was just doing what she thought was a nice gesture and it was. The bf needs to chill out.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

This guy needs to grow up. Your little cousin is only 17, how is she supposed to know what is wrong or right with baby ettiquette. It’s not as if she was doing something rude or spiteful. They aren’t even real cigars, it’s candy!

Just be supportive with her and try to make light of the situation by explaining to her that it’s an exciting and stressful time for a new father and he maybe didn’t mean to hurt her feelings. In the mean time I would suggest that someone talk to this BF and ask him to apologize to the girl. She is technically a child and he shouldn’t treat her that way no matter what it is she was doing.

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