(Closed) Does anyone ever worry…?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Nobody will be paying any attention to them, the focus will be on you! I realized that BM’s just want to look their best for your big day, would you rather they look like crap?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

Katie!! You’re only supposed to pick the friends that make you look good! Lol – jk!  Yeah, I had a minor freak out when I was getting married the first time and my size 2 blonde hair, blue eyed sis came out of the hair/makeup appt. looking AMAZING!! Luckily, I cleaned up pretty good too so dont worry!  The focus is on the bride!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m in the same boat as you.  My “biggest” BM is a size 4 (oh, and she models in her spare time), and two of them are ordering their dresses in a size 0 and having them taken in!  I’m just trying to not stress and instead use the fact that my BMs are skinny/gorgeous as motivation to work out every day and go tanning a couple times a week (I know, tanning is bad).

Post # 7
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362 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@katiedee: Haha, I know. ๐Ÿ™‚ Just know that you are the bride and you will be the most beautiful person there!

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

You’re hilarious :). The largest of my BMs is an eight, and most of them are twig-like. I’m definitely not, lol. I never really thought about it in terms of the wedding, but when I used to go out with them sometimes I would feel kind of bad about myself. What helped me was some positive inner dialogue. I realized that even though I’m not skinny, I have a pretty face and some great boobs, lol. Just point out things to yourself that you like.

As far as the wedding goes, don’t even worry about it. You’re going to be in a different category than your BMs. I’ve never once went to a wedding and compared the bride to the bridesmaids.

On a funny note, did anyone see that episode of Bridezillas where the bride kicked out a BM for being too skinny and wouldn’t let another girl be a BM until she had lost weight? That one cracked me up.

Post # 9
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Busy bee

I don’t worry.. and my bridesmaids are gorge! Who’s attention are you looking for anyways?.. Because the most important person will be seeing ONLY you ๐Ÿ™‚ In addition.. when I go to weddings..I look at the bridesmaids but the star is the bride.. what shes wearing.. how happy she looks.. they are like the extras on scene ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

hahaha, my bridesmaids are gorgeous girls, too, and I feel the same way when I go out with them! I’ll be like “Awesome, have this cute new dress & having a good hair day, etc” and then 1 of them will have curled her hair just perfectly & it looks adorable, and then I feel like I’m shot back down.. haha.  Seriously though, my girls are beautiful, so I think the pictures will be gorgeous.. if only I were as skinny as some of them! ๐Ÿ™‚ I’m secretly glad that none of them are opting to get their makeup professionally done with me so they’re not even more gorgeous than usual & upstage me.. haha.  Kidding (kind of :)), but I really think our pictures with our wedding party will turn out great.. we’ve got a good looking group of friends!

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper

Just dress them in this. No worries

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Hahahahaha, such a funny post and the perfect pick me up on this dreary day. Don’t worry, they will never outshine you on your day.

Post # 15
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671 posts
Busy bee

@jo.lee: great boobs! LOL! thats a great attitude! And was that the one where she made everyone go on a scale?????? creeeeeeeeeppppppppyyyyyyyy……… why wouldnt she just try to loose??? And how about the one who kept eating and eating because she wanted her mom to buy her another dress!!!!! LMAO these people are crazyyyyyyy

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper

Or these beauties

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