Post # 1
As to certain things in the wedding? We aren’t engaged yet, but have talked about it many times. Just waiting a few more months. But he has already said: He will wear an ALL white suit. White bow tie and everything. White HAT. (?!?!?) and white cowboy boots. (He is a redneck, so I saw that coming…) and his groomsmen will be in ALL black. Just the same. And so will…MY BRIDESMAIDS! AH! lol my bridesmaids in all black?! And that THAT is the color scheme. White and black. Which will be easy, won’t need to worry about shades, but I was kinda hoping on…colors, lol as well. But I am not going to fight it, since it’s actually nice for a guy to have an opinion on stuff for once. 🙂
Has your guy ever suprised you with stuff like that? As in already planning it out?
Post # 3
Yes! My FI had a lot of ideas at the beginning that did not mesh at all with my ideas. Over time we’ve kind of have come together and now our ideas are more of a combination. He adds somethings, I add something, we tweak it a little, and it becomes a new idea. It’s great that your boyfriend has ideas but I would suggest you add some of your ideas too.
Post # 4
M says he’ll wear all white as well… I personally don’t like the look lol… I won’t even be in white!! More of a champagne color!!! Let’s see he doesn’t like bird cage or bubble veils and is SUPER traditional about that… We do agree on the same types of dresses (I’ve never tried this type on before) we both like the fit and flare type so at least that’s a winner. Although I’m pretty sure I’ll wear a birdcage veil for the reception. (Come on ring!!)
Post # 5
He doesnt have many ideas, and the few he does seem to clash with my ideas so im not sure what we would do, since we arent engaged yet I guess I really shouldnt worry too much just yet. He wants a wedding at an exotic location, low hassle on the beach, I would like all of our family and friends there, at a B&B of some sort, with tons of personal details. I think its great if the grooms to be have opinions and want to be involved. I would imagine that makes the whole experience so much sweeter!