Post # 1
well then why are you marrying me or then maybe you should marry someone else if your not happy, etc. when you get into a fight with each other. UGHH it is so ANNOYING!! It’s like just bc we are fighting doesn’t mean I want to go find someone else to marry lol anyone else’s FH say this or any other ridiculous things just bc they are mad and have nothing else to say??
Post # 4
… wow, that’s actually a really, really harsh thing to say. Is there something, a situation where it’s come close to breaking up, that would make him say something like that? That’s not really a relationally healthy thing to say.
Post # 5
Although that isn’t appropriate, he’s probably just saying it because he’s feeling a little insecure and wants to be assured that he’s the one you want to marry, and that’s the best way to get you to express that without losing his manly pride.
Post # 6
Only once. And it was a really REALLY bad fight. But we got over it. Yes. It is annoying!!!
Post # 7
Nah…we have had a couple of really intense arguments but we both know where a fair fight ends and fighting dirty begins so we don’t go there.
Post # 8
hmm not that i recall. he may have said it in jest though. As long as you can work through it then i think you are just fine.
Post # 9
yeah it was a pretty bad fight we have both been stressed out a lot (mainly about money or lack there of) and he is very insecure so I think he said it out of insecurity, I too have said it to him once when we had a fight, but we talked about our finances and got everything straightened out. I asked a friend of mine who is married if her and her husband ever said that and she said yes many times and that after they got married when they fought they said why did we even get married, yikes! I def. don’t think it will ever come to that being said (on the other hand there whole relationship is love/hate). Thanks for all the support 🙂