(Closed) Does he really care?

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i remember i had a meltdown with my then FI over a shade of blue for the invites because i wanted him to be excited about it (paper stuff excites me) and he would say its just blue paper, i dont care.  i think there are some things guys just dont care about and others they are very much interested in 🙂

 

Post # 4
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767 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Sometimes this same thing happens to me. I sit down with him to discuss something I deem important (recently it’s wedding stuff) and he makes jokes or doesn’t really answer my questions. We haven’t had any tiffs about it. Usually I just explain that I’m trying to get his input and it’s important to me- could he please communicate clearly with me… and then he snaps out of it.

But I know what you mean! I think sometimes things aren’t as important to them, or they can’t picture it in their head. For example, right now my FH and I are trying to decide on a photographer. When looking at their blogs he has made jokes about the pictures or nit-picked over tiny details. I had to tell him to just imagine us and all our details in the pictures for him to “get it.” Sometimes I think they don’t plan ahead or read so much into all the details- they just expect it will all work out. 

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper

um. totally. but i think its a guy thing. its not that they dont care about the wedding or getting married. they just don’t care about the details as much we do. and i have come to learn to that if i dont want to get upset by his lack of interest, then i just wont ask for opinions on everything! i make some decisions by myself for the wedding and he is totally ok with that.

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