Post # 1
So I’m tired of playing games. After the last guy who played w/my feelings, I’m trying to weed out the guys who are using me as a time occupier. Anyways I started talking to guy online about a week ago, we moved the convo to snap chat. From the start his responses have been sporadic, we talked about getting together, but obviously that hasn’t happened. Our messages are super flirty, but lately he has been reading my messages and not responding. The last time I initiated the convo, he read my message and didn’t message me for 4 days. I finally got a message from him and also did the sporadic answering. Is he even remotely interested or should I just stop completely responding? How do I appraoch this? I really hate game playing and it was so easy w/my 1st love, we messaged each other like crazy, I didn’t have to analyze his interest in me and everything was natural.
Post # 2
Girl, he is just not that into you. Sorry Boo.
It sucks. Don’t waste your time on such a jerk. A much better guy is out there for you. You deserve much better
Post # 4
Yeah, move on to someone better. From what you describe, he’s not worth your time!
Post # 5
Yeah don’t bother.
When online dating in the early stages I find it better to interact with several guys so you dont get too hung up on one. It’s definitely a numbers game! If it’s clear after a few messages back and fore then talk on the phone and get a date. There’s no need for all the texting/snap chatting etc etc.
You weed out the time wasters much quicker that way.
Post # 6
I’d move on, this isn’t going to happen.
Post # 7
Wait until you feel that feeling again. Those games are no fun!
Post # 8
Move on. You haven’t even met him yet so moving on should be easy peasy.
Post # 10
I don’t get the way online dating is being done these days. It seems like people talk for *weeks* before they finally agree to meet. That strikes me as a time waster.
When I was online dating, we’d chat a few times, maybe a phone call and if he sounded halfway decent, an agreement to meet for lunch or coffee or something. The whole thing wouldn’t take more than a couple of days at most.
I can’t imagine wasting weeks talking to someone without meeting them in person.
Post # 11
I think stop responding, and also don’t get deeply flirtatious before you meet in person and see if something is there. I am wary of extended communication before you even meet.
Post # 12
And in the future, I’d assume that if you move the conversation to snapchat, of all places, it’s not going anywhere serious.
Post # 13
He’s just not that into you
Post # 14
There’s not one thing that makes me think he’s interested. Your conversation is happening over snap chat, for starters. Sporadic and not responding. This should be very obvious.