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    Jizes318    November 19, 2010   Miami

    Does it bother you or your significant other if one or the other is more "experienced" per say in the bedroom?

    I don't want to sound like a child but sometimes It does bother me knowing he has been with A LOT of women in the past. He was what you called a "player" in High-school etc... At first didn't bother me as much because i just thought well he wants me and so many women wanted him and I am who he chooses.. It felt good but sometimes if I hear a story or some comment comes up it bothers me...

    My question is do these things bother any of you? I feel almost juvenile even posting this but I am curious...

     
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    Goldilocks1107    September 2010   Madison, WI

    It's for that reason that I haven't told FH my "number" so to speak. It's not that high, but I'm pretty sure it's higher than his.

    But, if it was the other way around, as long as he wasn't "comparing" or telling stories about his previous conquests, then no I don't think it would bother me. I'm actually more intrigued when I have a chance to meet the ex-gfs because I can compare (and so far I'm much prettier Smile).

    That said, a certain level of jealousy is totally understandable.

     
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    Jizes318    November 19, 2010   Miami

    I had the pleasure of seeing 2 of his exes LOL.. one looks like she was hit by a train  and the other is honestly beautiful. Both cheated on him. When he was younger though before the train wreck, he didnt have girlfriends he just "got around". They don't bother me really its the fact he was pretty much a male whore. I look at him and I just can't see him being like that. He couldnt even get a date to prom because of his rep. I wish this mess would go away.. I should be more of an adult but so damn hard! LOL

     

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    the numbers would not bother me.  I mean, that really makes no difference to me at all.  it would bother me if he was visibly less experienced, (like didn't know what to do).  If that was the case the relationship would not have survived very long

     
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    Ryansgirl    October 22, 2011   Canada

    I don't think it would bother me, as long as he was 100% faithful now!!  My FI and I have the same number of previous partners, but even if he had more, I don't think it would bother me.  Unless it was some absured (sp? lol) number of women like 50 or more haha

     

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