(Closed) does it make me a bad person???

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
1523 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My opinion is that you are married not dead! I think all humans think that another person is funny or attractive from time to time. To me, it’s no big deal as long as you never think about wanting to be with him or have an affair with him.

Post # 4
Member
1023 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

You are fine. It would be absolutely crazy if married individuals were never supposed to find another human being besides their spouse attractive. Do not feel guilty.

Post # 5
Member
624 posts
Busy bee

Once you get married, that doesn’t mean you will never be attracted to anyone else in your life but it’s the maturity from making it go further that matters.  So as long as it’s not past “Oh he’s cute”, I think you are pretty normal.

Post # 6
Member
3126 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I think it’s ok 🙂 Just don’t act on those feelings. And if you have an exciting dream, wake up your husband!

Post # 7
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5671 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I love what jalii9 said. You didn’t lose you eye sight or your sexuality because you got married. I think it’s completely normal and you are not a bad person at all!

Post # 9
Member
6598 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

You are going to be attracted to a lot of men throughout your life but as long as you don’t act on it you are fine!

Your husband gets attracted to other women as well!

There is a big difference between having a little crush and cheating!

Post # 10
Member
529 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Yeah, I think you’re definitely okay.  There’s a guy at my work who is totally hot and I drool over him all the time, but he’s married, I’m married, and nothing’s going to happen and I know there.  He’s just a hotty.  😛

Post # 11
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516 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

You are going to find other people ‘pretty or handsome or hott” Just don’t thinka bout it too much.

Post # 12
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2281 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I know all about this. I used to have this HUGE crush on my professor. Occupy your time with positive thoughts and let the moment pass. And it will.

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