(Closed) Does it matter if your wedding theme doesn’t match with the venue style/decor?

posted 9 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Helper bee

Hmm… that’s tough. From how you described both the new locations and your current theme I think it might be challenging to get it to look 100% cohesive, BUT if you love the new places AND the beach theme, and you have the time/patience to make them fit then go for it! It may take some creative figuring but I’d bet you can make either place look gorgeous! The wheels hanging from the ceiling could be challenging though. I doubt anyone would look at the lights to notice the wheels but if they do, oh well. πŸ™‚ You could make the places look almost like a beach house with your decorations.  Also, I’d double check with the location that says that you can’t have candles… mine said that too but when I described that I was putting them in glass globes and on trays with sides (so the wax doesn’t run all over) they were fine with it.

Will you be out a lot of money by switching locations or have you been able to find someone to take over the contract for you? Good luck and let us know what you decide! I’d LOVE to see pictures! πŸ™‚

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

Is there another part of your budget that you can skimp back on to keep this venue? For me, the most important things was the venue and the photography. In my opinion, it doesn’t sound like it would work very well unless you paid more money to get more stuff to try to disguise everything, which doesn’t end up saving you any money anyway! Is there any way you can actually have a beach venue? Even if it costs a bit more,  you’d save by not needing as many decorations because it’s already there! If your heart is set on the beach theme, you definitely need to keep it or else you’ll regret it! Good luck finding the perfect balance!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

I love your theme ideas, but as you said the venue doen’t seem to really fit into that.  I find it best to use the venue as an inspiration for your theme and color pallette.  That will save you money by using what is already in place at the venue.  

 Maybe instead of a beach theme – as in ocean with sea shells and sand – maybe make it a summer lake beach cottage feel - that might go better with the rustic wood work and wheels hanging from the ceiling. Like working more with natural branches and flowers.  Maybe using more light colored accents to brighten up all the wood work.

You could keep your same color sceme and just tweak the theme bit.

As far as the cadles – they don’t allow them at all? or just no open flame?  You could also think about those little batery tea lights. 

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Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

I think you can TOTALLY make it work! A rustic beachy wedding! Just try & incoorporate a teensy bit of rustic-ness into your beachy-ness! Like, if you could use twine on any candle holders, or put some on the starfish somehow. If you’re using sand, maybe use darker sand as opposed to white sugar sand. Like Cocoa beach sand vs Clearwater beach sand… Sorry, I live in Florida & had to do the comparison! I say it can totally be done!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I agree with FloridaMel… I think you can make it a rustic Beachy theme. As soon as I read her post so many thoughts had come to my head. I will see if I can come up with ideas for you… Try Googling, it may be you new best friend.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee

I think people won’t really notice the walls and such.  I planned my whole color scheme and bought a bunch of decorations for my red and white wedding…then realized that the venue’s decorations were gold and blue.  I spent a day agonizing over it, then realized that if it took ME that long to notice the venue’s color scheme, then no one was going to notice it at the five-hour reception.  I think unconsciously your guests focus on what YOU did (centerpieces, cake table etc.) and not on the background. 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

By the way, I am kind of in the same boat. Our colors are black and white with red accents and our venue has these UGLY gold walls. According to friends and fam, it wasn’t going to interfere with our decor which helped me calm down a bit. I still cringe when I see them though, lol.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

The same thing happened to me, i started planning a beachy wedding and then we changed venues (the lady at the other place was too hard to work with).  We moved it to a state park lodge which is a pretty rustic building (think wood everywhere – huge fireplace, etc.).  What i did was scale back the beacy, but I’m still incorporating a lot of the same stuff.  Instead of vases, I’m using mason jars.  Instead of sand castles, we’re using some wooden fish I found and fishing nets.  I’m using shells in the centerpieces, but mixing in some river rocks.  If you need more ideas, just let me know.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I like IA_Snowflake’s suggestion. If I were you I would definitely re-think the beach theme, as it would be kind of confusing. Maybe switch maritime places and go with lake fishing or something to keep it all. And candles can be any theme- check with the place again.

Post # 15
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383 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

What about trying to combine the themes? We’re having a wedding on the beach, but including rustic themes (deep brown, greens, branches) to represent where I come from.  You could keep your colors, maybe incorporate some sand, but take away the very beachy things (starfish, shells, etc….).

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

It’s completely doable, just tweak it. Instead of the stereotypical beach wedding do the rustic, shipwreck beach wedding.   Not literally shipwreck but as if things have been washed up on shore instead of picked straight out of the ocean. It would be awesome! I live in California so i see this stuff all the time, maybe even if you add more of a nautical  feel with your beach stuff. Love it!!!

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