- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
Here’s the deal:
-We looked at rings together a few weeks ago after he got a little tipsy and blabbed that he had finally saved enough and was looking
-He doesn’t know that I know he bought one (I accidentally found out), and he has it
-We already exchanged Christmas presents because we were both so excited… so I don’t think it’s a Christmas present for me. I also didn’t want a Christmas proposal, which he knows. HOWEVER this makes me think that he won’t be able to hold on to it very long, seeing as he was only able to refrain from giving me my Christmas present for a week after buying it.
-We had planned a small getaway for NYE weekend a few months ago (my idea, not his) BUT this was before all of the engagement talk started… doesn’t mean he didn’t decide it would be a good opportunity
-When I was talking about worrying that the trip I planned wouldn’t be good enough… he didn’t get mad, but he was visibly upset that I was thinking about changing it (…just to a different place) because “he’s been looking forward to it” and wants a romantic weekend with me “all to himself”.
-I have always told him that I will not live with him without being engaged. We both just agreed to look at apartments, maybe moving in around February because to him “it’s time” and “it just feels right”.
Do you think NYE could be it???