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Does Kate's dress make you rethink your own?

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  • poll: Do you wish you'd chosen something different now?
    Yes, I loved her dress and it makes me rethink my own. : (46 votes)
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    No, I'm still head over heels for my dress. : (177 votes)
    73 %
    I'll explain below. : (18 votes)
    7 %
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    DiamondsandLace    May 2011  

    I thought her dress was absolutely stunning - and it's making me wish I had sleeves on my own (I'm getting married in two weeks!) 

    I wanted sleeves when I first started looking, but I fell in love with a strapless lace dress. I still love my dress, but I think Kate looked stunning and classic and I really wish I had sleeves now.

    Anyone else having a little dress envy/regret thanks to her gown?

     
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    MrsNeutrino    July 2012  

    not at all. I have always loved sleeves, but i would NEVER do that in july. Maybe you could look into getting a long sleeved lace jacket?

     
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    FutureHarp    November 11, 2011   Katy, TX

    No, because she paid 42k for her dress and that is more than i make in a year, i love my dress, so i have no regrets! tho her dress was BEAUTIFUL!!!!

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    No, because I have been thinking of something as simple and classic as that.  It fits my theme.  I am not sure about the sleeves though.  I'd have to see what it looks like on me first.  But my FMIL ran into the bedroom and told me she loves her dress and envisioned a Grace Kelly look for me as well.

     
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    Birdie Love    May 7, 2011   CA

    Her dress was very beautiful, classy, timeless and reminded me a bit of Grace Kelly. That is SO not my style! Tongue out

     
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    JerseyGirlLaur    April 21, 2012  

    No but it does make me feel like a psychic, I posted a picture of what I was looking for 4 months ago http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/a-very-early-dress-dilemma and it looks almost EXACTLY like what she ended up wearing haha. 

     
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    PrairieGirl    August 26, 2011   Winnipeg, Canada

    I thought her dress was gorgeous and perfect - for her. I'm really happy with my dress choice and can't wait to wear it!

     
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    ChaiAnkh99    August 12, 2011   Boston

    It looked lovely on her, but personally I'd never wear something that big or with that much of a train. Or sleeves. My dress is a strapless mermaid, and that was pretty much the only style I ever pictured for myself.

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    Well, I already wore mine.... and it was pretty similar to hers... so.... no. 

     
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    MissBoPeep       New England

    @KLP2010: I think I might be on Weddingbee too much.  As soon as I saw Kate's dress I thought that it looked just like yours! 

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    @KLP2010 Care to post a picture?  If not, I'll go through threads. :)

     
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    MrsNeutrino    July 2012  

    @KLP2010: would also love to see!

     
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    Prewitt    June 19, 2011   England

    No, I love mine even more now. Plus as hers is classic and timeless, whereas ours are more trendy, ours are in a way not overshadowed.

     
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    Ms. Sorbet    June 18, 2011   Atlanta, GA

    @Birdie Love: Hahaha, same here!  I thought Kate's dress was very pretty and great for her (I didn't watch the royal wedding, but couldn't escape the pictures online).  But my style is definitely sleeker, sexier, and not at all princess-like!

     
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    DVsMom      

    Not at all- I got a ton of phone calls and emails this morning with people saying how much hers looked like mine. I still love it!

     
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    deathbydesign    February 18, 2012   Lives in Ontario, married in Quebec

    I loved her dress. Understated elegance. Classic and timeless, but modern at the same time! It really let her beauty shine through instead of having the emphasis on some over the top outfit. I even loved her small boquet!

    It didn't make me rethink my own dress choice though. Her dress would not work very well with my rustic sugaring off wedding, lol! I still love her choice though!

    Here are some pictures for the people who've been asking:

    Does Kate's dress make you rethink your own? :  wedding royal wedding dress lace sleeves Kate

    From Style Me Pretty.

     
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    Oneeleven    April 7, 1992   Ontario, Canada, Getting married in the Mayan Riviera

    Oh my gosh. Not even a little bit.

     
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    ellabee    July 3, 2011   Virginia

    @DiamondsandLace:I always wanted sleeves but couldn't justify the extra price so my opinion now is the same as it was before. I still love my dress and don't "regret" that I can't afford the custom sleves.

     
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    CTbride2010    January 14, 2012   CT

    I loved her dress but don't know how i would like the sleeves on me, but i am getting married in November in new england so it might be chilly! and i am getting married in a Catholic Cathedral so it could totally work and i loved the Grace Kelly look...

     
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    bklynbridetobe    December 2011   Brooklyn Born

    Not at all. I never liked A-line or fuller skirt dresses. Pippa's dress however is more my style. I tend to favor tighter, sleeker fitted gowns.

     
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    smith207    October 2, 2010  

    Her options were completely different than ours in so many ways- budget, finding a dress to fit the venue, etc. There is no way she could've picked a strapless dress for such a religious and high-profile ceremony. 

    I wonder what she would've picked had she been married in a more private setting?

     
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    jenewitt    June 25, 2011  

    Her dress was absolutely gorgeous.  It was appropriate for her wedding and her personality.  That being said...I am still absolutely in love with my dress.  I think my dress reflects me and my own personality along with the personality of the wedding!

    But Kate looked radiant and they both look so in love!

     
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    rachgirl82    December 15, 2011   FL

    Absolutely not, but I think it was perfect for her- she looked classic!

     
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    DiamondsandLace    May 2011  

    I agree with everyone - if it isn't your style (if you like a sleekier, trendier, more modern look) then yes, it's probably not making you rethink your choice. And it isn't like I could afford a dress on that scale anyway - the perks of becoming a princess, I suppose ;)

    And I'm not rethinking mine, per se, I DO still love my dress. But I'm a bit wistful over those sleeves, and she just looked so stunning.

    Is this anyone else's favorite royal wedding dress? I like it even better than Princess Grace's.

     
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    cyneswith    May 14, 2011   Augusta, GA

    I have a dress that is slightly MORE modest (not intentionally, the dress was just so me).  I don't like the sweetheart on hers, but I love the sleeves.  I do wish mine had a fuller skirt, though.  Mine is also understated, in a bizarre sort of way...

    Does Kate's dress make you rethink your own? :  wedding royal wedding dress lace sleeves Isolde3

    (That's not me, that's the model.  I'm short, chesty, and just a little bit fat.)  

    I like my sleeves and her skirt (minus the train) more, and while I still prefer my bodice, I wish it was a little lower.  So, while I vaguely prefer my dress, hers does highlight the one big regret about my dress - the not full, not particularly bridal skirt.

     
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    Golden139    August 13, 2011   live in Texas, wedding in Michigan

    Not at all! Her dress looked gorgeous on her. Very classic. She looked like the perfect modern princess. I was actually kind of excited that she chose an ivory lace gown because that's what mine is too :)

     
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    bells    June 26, 2011  

    Not at all... Its a classic but its nothing like what I'm looking for. I avoid lace as much as possible

     
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    panterapeach    April 2011  

    heck no it didnt make me rethink my own, 

    instead it confirmed how friggin much I loved my dress.

     
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    iheartnerds    October 9, 2011   Massachusetts

    I love that my dress looks absolutely nothing like Kate's. :)

     
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    KristenGotMarried    May 19, 2012   The Cbus

    I don't have my dress yet but I won't be using hers as a guideline by any means.  I might like the deep V with lace straps (not sleeves!) but I guess we'll see.

    I think she looked gorgeous, but you could put her in a trashbag and she'd still look good.  Have to admit I wish she would've gone just a TAD edgier. 

     
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    Tswife4ever    May 28, 2011   California

    No way, I LOVE my dress

     
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    amor vincit omnia    May 2013   Arizona

    Nope, I am not even close to getting married and I don't have a dress picked out either! But for 1.) I am no thin mint so her dress would look funny on me. I have a very sprinter/athletic build. 2.) I live in Arizona sooo even if I wanted to wear the dress I would probably faint due to heat. 

    That being said I do really how the dress looks on her. She definitely has the body for it! She looked gorgeous!

     
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    jedeve    August 14, 2010   Montana

    It made me like mine more!

    The neckline on mine was similar, although it didn't have sleeves:

    Does Kate's dress make you rethink your own? :  wedding royal wedding dress lace sleeves IMG 9120

     
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    sojourner73    February 2012  

    The bride wore a lovely dress fit for a princess.  However, I was surprised how traditional and conservative it looked, especially after hearing countless rumors how it would be somewhat edgy or "modern."  It reminded me more of the late Princess Grace of Monaco's own wedding dress.  More likely, Kate's dress design was chosen due the very traditional and conservative setting of Westminster Abbey, but a good part of it reflects her own personal style, which tends to be more classic rather than edgy.  I notice that much of today's modern bridal gowns are strapless (which I was never a big fan of), so Kate's dress in a way is a refreshing yet classy alternative to that. 

     
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    berkie    August 26, 2011  

    I loved Kate's dress so much, I can't even tell you.  It would be a little warm for my own wedding, but it made me glad I chose a lace top on my own dress!!

     
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    irin997    June 18, 2011   Maryland

    I LOVED Kate's dress so much.  It made me wish I had a dress like that.  Mine has some similar features, but I've seen several dresses similar to hers, the JA that one bride here had restyled, JLP or JLK something, as well as the Watters Escalante come specifically  mind. 

    However, I still love my dress, esp since my wedding is only about 6 weeks away.

     
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    Entangled    September 17, 2011   Carmel, CA

    Oh, boy, no.  Her dress has five or ten times as much fabric as mine.  It's gorgeous, but it's very traditional and I'm very not.

     
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    MsInterpret    March 19, 2011   lesbian couple, married in Iowa, live in san antonio TX

    I love her dress too.  It didn't make me regret mine... but I did tell my SIL this morning that I think it might bring about a change (finally!) in the dominance of the strapless dress as far as what is available for us "normal" women out there shopping.  And so, I said that had we waited a year to marry, I might have had more luck finding something that was really ME.

    Don't get me wrong, I loved my dress, but always felt this nagging bit of disappointment because I felt like my dress was the best I could find that I could afford and out of what's available without going custom.  And not necessarily the best dress that suited me.    I've always been a fan of lace and sleeves and never found THE dress that was all that I really wanted, but kind of felt like I had to make do based on current fashion and budget.  Make sense to anyone else?

    Basically i looked and looked for something lacey and with sleeves, more modest without being frumpy, and found very little, then what I did find I couldn't afford.  So I finally just decided I could be happy with what I found (strapless, but all over lace, and with a lace bolero to make up for the strapless factor).

     
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    .twist.    October 7, 2011   Alberta, Canada

    I too loved her dress! I thought she looked fabulous, and stunning, and classy, and royal-like. Although, it's totally not my style and not my kinda dress.

     
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    M.Ruder    July 2, 2011   Saint Louis

    I LOVE my gown 100% but yes, her gown made me feel like mine was completely inferior.  Haha.  I was just wishing I had hers, because it's exactly what I wanted originally, but my big boo-tay would NOT look good in it! haha

     

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