(Closed) does this count as breaking one of the 3-step rules?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Hostess
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

That is fine.  I eventually had to tell my husband to stop talking about it when I was waiting because it was too hard.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

All is fair in love and war. Tongue out

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

All is fair in love and war.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

fil me in…what are the three step rules??

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think you have to say something if they comment/ask, or then they start to worry that something is wrong.  (Fragile male egos…)  Just a “you asked for some space, so I’m trying to give it to you” works, or you can be more direct as you did noting he made a promise to think about it if you stopped bringing it up.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I say it’s fine!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think thats fine because he was the one who brought it up.

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