(Closed) Does this mean anything?

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

A lot of people would say that yes, those are signs. But my SO talks like your SO, and I’m still not engaged (we’ve been dating for 3.5 years). Take it with a grain of salt, otherwise you’ll drive yourself crazy, lol. I mean, if you notice large chunks of money missing from his bank account, or find a jewelery store business card, then ya, I’d get excited. But so far it just sounds like talk, and actions speak louder than words.

Gwen.

Post # 4
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4887 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’d imagine that just like you, he knows you’ll end up married eventually.  But I wouldn’t read into ANYTHING as a ‘sign’ until he’s literally proposing. You’ll only drive yourself nuts, you know?

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Why not just ask him what’s on his mind? I don’t understand why women pretend like they aren’t wanting it or waiting for it! It’s a marriage – essentially a decision both people have equal part in. You should talk about it.

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