(Closed) Does your DHSO apologize?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Does your DH| SO apologize?
    Yes : (80 votes)
    68 %
    No : (8 votes)
    7 %
    Sometimes : (30 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    6249 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

    He is getting better about it.  But it’s still a work in progress.

    Post # 4
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    1849 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    always. he’s too good to me. 

    Edit: and when it does (very rarely) happen, it’s usually at least half my fault.

    Post # 5
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    4275 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    Yes or he starts sucking up to me. I am the one that has to work on it more.

    Post # 6
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    9631 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We both apologize.  That said, we rarely argue so there’s usually no need for apologies.  We’ve had some misunderstandings that we discussed and apologized for communicating something in the wrong way.  It hasn’t been a matter of “right or wrong” with us.

    Post # 7
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Yes. Probably about 50% of the time. We rarely argue, but when we do we want it over quickly. Usually the one who is less mad apologizes, regardless of the situation at hand.

    Post # 8
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    2450 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    all the time. i never realized before, but we are champs at the whole communication thing. so we explain our feelings, apologize, and make a plan to avoid whatever the argument was about.

    he is quicker to get to it than i am. i usually need more cool down time.

    Post # 9
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    1849 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Though, to be fair, we’ve never had a true fight in the sense that we both defend our conflicting opinions and get angry at each other. It’s more like I’ll get frustrated with something he did and point it out to him, and he immediately apologizes. If he ever did that with me, I would also apologize. I honestly don’t know what it would be like if we did get into a legitimate fight though, it just hasn’t happened. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    752 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We also get a gold star for communication in our relationship 🙂

    We both acknowledge what we could have done differently and apologize for hurting each other.

    Post # 11
    Member
    2009 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Gold stars here too. 

    Talk it out, apologize ad make a plan on the issue going forward.

    Post # 12
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    1069 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    We don’t really apologize, we just talk it out and resolve it.

    Post # 13
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    1526 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    DH apologizes.  He is really good about it.  It is definitely something I need to work on though.

    Shame on me.  Frown

    Post # 14
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    Love this post!  Although I’ll admit that majority of the few disagreements we have are me over reacting, FI RARELY apologizes.  I guess I grew up just always saying “sorry” as well, even if it wasn’t my fault.  Like a simple, “I’m sorry there was the misunderstanding” followed by a hug.  But FI is seriously one of the nicest, laid-back people on the planet, and not used to confrontation with anyone, therefore never really having to say “I’m sorry” all that often.  But it still chaps my ass sometimes!  😉

    Edit: We talk almost everything out as well, but I still throw in the “sorry” regardless of what the disagreement was about. 🙂

    Post # 15
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Yes, of course!  As do I!

    Post # 16
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Yup, he always feels really bad if he says anything mean to me and apologizes. He’ll suck up for a long time after too.

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