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Does Your FI Have a Wedding Surprise?

posted 7 months ago in Gifts and Registries
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    littlechick    July 23, 2012   Colorado

    My FI knows how excited I am about our wedding and how much planning I have been doing. I share everything with him about every detail and he doesn't usually put much input into most of my (what I like to call) brilliant ideas. He's got something up his sleeve though. We are 8 months away from our wedding and he says he got the cake all figured out already. Well, that's great news! Wrong. He won't tell me what it looks like, tastes like, how big it's going to be, anything. I trust him to know what he's doing because he knows the ultimate plan and he's the artsy fartsy type of guy, but it kind of annoys me that he won't tell me anything about one of the key factors in our wedding being a success. Should I be worried or should I just let this one go? Have any of you bees had experience with something like this?

     
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    Miss.Sunflower    May 5, 2012  

    My FI was going to surprise me with what he was going to wear to the wedding, which made me so nervous. But I trusted his choice, but later found out from hearing him to talk to his friend about how he was going to wear a morning coat, since it was the morning and "Isn't that what you're supposed to wear at a morning wedding?" Lol. How cute, I'll let him have his moment.

     
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    DaniSue13    October 30, 2011   Florida

    Yes! My FI has a surprise for me but I have no idea what it is. He hasn't given me one single hint. We are getting married in 2 weeks so I don't have too much longer to wait, thank goodness. I'm also surprising him with a groom's cake :)

     
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    KnisleyToBee    August 2013  

    We're going to suprise each other with love letters. He's currently in the process of writing me some. Mine are from a couple years before I met him, and some after we began dating.

    It's going to be amazing and so special :)

     
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    mrscheetos    June 10, 2012  

    My FI says he has a wedding surprise as well and idk what it could be. he sucks at keeping surprises/secrets so we'll see how long this one will last lol

     
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    MissPumpkinPie    October 13, 2012   Jersey Shore

    Not sure.  He hasn't said anything to me lately, but he did say previously that I should leave the honeymoon up to him.  It was never brought up again though.

     
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    35thannidaughter    June 15, 2001   Glendale, AZ

    @littlechick:  I would let it go.  It sounds like he is really excited about it.  I like suprises though, and the wedding cake wasn't a big deal to me when I got married. 

     
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    MrsDiddles    September 29, 2012   Columbia, MD

    I am way in to planning mode and my FI is trying his best to help me out whereever he can. While there have been little things that I made the decision on he has completely taken over planning our honeymoon. I have no idea where we're going and how long we'll be, but it is nice to have one less thing to stress and worry about. I say enjoy the suspense and just remember that your SO loves you and want's to make you smile. I doubt you'll have anything to worry about.

     
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    littlechick    July 23, 2012   Colorado

    Good to know I'm not the only one that this has happened to! It is a bit more comfort, but it would still be nice to know. I like surprises just as much as the next person, but I have this nasty habit of trying to ruin the surprise beforehand. He might crack under the pressure. Then again, I should let him just have his moment. Thanks bees!

     

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