my fiance told me a couple days ago while he was taking out money from atm after work that a female approached him and asked for directions, after giving directions, she asked for his number? Now this was after work so my FI was all dirty, works in iron lifting carrying metal so for safety reasons, workers don't wear jewelry including wedding band (knew this from beginning) So he did not have wedding band on. He told her that he's married, she said why no ring, he explained because of work. She then apologized. He was shocked and I guess told me a couple days later. No biggie. Does your FI ever tell you when he gets hit on? I'm not used to a woman just bluntly asking for his number. Is this common? I'm not going to lie, kind of upset me but he told me so I guess I shouldn't get upset.
My SO tells me when he gets hit on and we usually laugh about it together. No reason to get upset if he didn't flirt back :)
agree with pp. If it happens, most of the time we laugh it off.
It's not his fault he didn't have a ring on. He didn't flirt back, AND he set her straight. THEN, he told you about it!! No reason to be upset at all! Sounds like you have a great guy! :)
I actually appreciated the one time my FI told me he got hit on. As I was listening, I felt a bit jealous, but I kinda liked it in a weird way. As if it were validation that I still had a "thing" for him you know? I mean, it's obvious I do, but it was interesting to feel jealousy because he's never made me jealous.
Now, if he were to tell you every other day about all the women that drool over him, that's different. That makes it seem like he LIKES the attention, and attention-seeking men get in trouble.
My fiance tells me when he gets hit on like PP we laugh about it and move on no need to get upset. You should be happy other women find what you have intriguing. As long as he doesn't cross the line no need to trip.
My guy was in the supermarket by himself one evening when this blonde woman with fake boobs kept walking past Looking at him. He stopped in one of the aisles to look for a particular product and she came past him again but this time she leaned over right beside him while staring at him the entire time. Like the OP's guy my man was in his work clothes, although he wears a suit to work . My boyfriend is like a big cuddly teddy bear even with his suit on and he has a great sense of humour so after she blatantly leaned over he said "listen love I've only come in here to get stuff for my dinner!"
He told me all this and just like some of the others I was in fits of laughter as I can just imagine him doing that!
ur guy sounds really open and honest like a real catch, i can understand u mindin as being the girls in the relationships i think we are not really used to the idea of our man getting so directly hit on as girls arnt as likely to directly pick people up as men ( in my experience). but he told u and set her straight so even though it made you feel funny think about how lucky you are to have such a great guy
Yes, he does. I love it, so it doesn't upset me at all. I know it makes me feel good when some guy shows interest in me, so I'm sure it gives FI an egoboost. :)
Mine tells me ... when he even notices in the first place! :) Sometimes he can be oblivious to more subtle flirting.
My SO tells me when it happens. I get a little jealous, but it's not like I can stop other women from noticing his attractiveness. But if they try to go further than flirting, I'll have a problem.
I'd tell my SO if it happened to me, buuuut it doesn't, so.. XD
Me and Alex both work in gas stations so we get tons of crazy customers. We always tell each other our stories when we get home. This often includes stories about getting hit on (from both of us.) We always just laugh about it.
He sure does.
But he's a musician. It kind of comes with the territory. I've never asked him to tell me, but it often comes with a funny story that he wants to share. Never really bothers me. He's hot, and sweet and stupidly talented.
And he comes home to me :)
Yes, we both tell each other and then laugh about it. I think it's kind of a fun way of flirting with each other..like, "Hey! I'm hot stuff, seeeee?"
My husband just told me he never gets hit on ... aww lol. Yes I think we would tell each other just because it's really no big deal and we laugh about it.
My DH always tells me and we laugh, because the stories are so ridic. I stopped telling him if it happens to me though, because he gets defensive. He gets hit on more than me and I just laugh when it happens, because usually it is from women WAY older than him and they are so ridic about it. I guess it always perplexes me why he gets upset if someone hits on me, though.
It happens to both of us. I don't think we always tell each other, but if it's funny we do.
I would rather not know sometimes, but it is actually quite flattering when women do hit on him.
"Yes, my man is hot and I hit that!" ha!
SuperFine doesn't have to tell me that he gets hit on all the time. It kind of comes with the territory of being super fine. He constantly gets hit on by men and women.
If someone makes him uncomfortable with their attention, he does usually tell me about it.
It happens and I don't always tell him when it happens to me if there isn't some weird/funny element to it. He also told me stories and they tend to be if the lady hitting on him was weird/funny/random
I laugh it off, because he thinks it's so funny... Sometimes he gets hit on when we are together? I guess I look like his sister....
How come I never get hit on? LOL
He tells me when his dementia patients at the hospital hit on him, he has had little old lady's grab his butt! lol. Not sure if he tells me when a more age appropriate female hits on him or not, don't really care either way though.
Yes, he is always coming home bragging about girls hitting on him. I love it, knowing that he still has it! I trust him 100% and know he isn't interested in these women at all.
He always tells me. I think it's funny. One time some girl asked him about his tattoos on his arms and legs. My BF is a very nice person so he was explaining some of them ,( on his leg he has this girl on it ..i believe its like a pin up girl but more sluty-ish lol cant explain) so the girl was like almost touching his arms and he started to feel uncomfortable..so he goes down to the one on his leg and says this is my wife ( not even married nor engaged) the chick was like OHH wow okay sorry and walked away haha
Also when I get hit on at either bars/ or coffee store.. my bf says well you should of let them buy you a drink...it would of saved us money lmao
My husband just thinks people are hitting on him, when they aren't. lol.
For example:
We were at the grocery store one day, and I sent him to get the deli meat, while I got the produce. He comes back after retrieving the meat and says, " That girl was hitting on me!", so I say, "well what did she say?", and he replies, "After she gave me the meat she said, is there anything else I can get you?"....
I burst out laughing and said, " Aw hun, that's her job, she says that to everyone...."
Maybe it was her tone of voice, because I had that exact lady get me some deli meat before, and she is pretty soft spoken, and sweet.
My husband always tells me when he gets hit on. And my response is always, "I'll kill her". Of course I'm joking. I don't really care that much. It's actually kind of nice knowing that other women are attracted to him :)
LOL, yep, we both tell each other, especially if the story is funny.
Me and my SO only tell each other if we get hit on and the circumstances around it are weird or funny. Generally however, we don't mention it. We it seem to inspire a lot of boldness from a lot of people. We even get hit on when we're together. it's actually pretty funny.
The other day though SO got hit on by a 16 year old customer at work who asked him if he would get fired if they went to the bathroom and made out. He said no, I'd go to jail. We're still laughing about it ;)
@FutureMrs.browneyes: When I'm sitting at a bar alone waiting for my SO guys always talk to me and buy me drinks. He get's upset but just like your FI's thnking, I tell him, hey! Cheap night for you! He should thank the guy for saving him money! lol.
@Cash000: So funny but cute!
When we go to SO's neck of the woods he ALWAYS gets hit on in front of me and it's funny bc I'm sitting right there with him with a ring on my finger! One time our waitress (they used to work together) after hitting on him wouldn't even take me order! Thanks, lady! I know my man gets hit on but he never says anything. I tell him when guys hit on me and is respsonse always is, "I'm gonna beat their ass". lol.
@SpartyGirl: Haha right! Thats funny, I think Id be a little pissed if the lady didnt take my order! Either that or the next time she walked over lean over and kiss my man..back off lady ( growls ) haha
If it does happen, he doesn't tell me. But we both are not the jealous type and I hope he'd share it with me!
@SamanthaLovesJames: When you said someone approached him as he was taking money out of an ATM, my first thought was, "SCAM! I hope he walked away with all of the money he pulled out." Paranoid. I don't like it when people get close to me at ATMs.
Anyway, yes, he always tells me when he gets hit on. I think it's hilarious because he's SO handsome but doesn't think so. Happened all the time when we worked retail (to both of us). Even before we started dating, I used to tell creepsters that my boyfriend worked in back, and we had to call him up front a few times to get those guys away from me.
Yep we both tell each other and laugh about it. You can't stop people from hitting on you but you can set them straight when they do.
Yes, we both tell each other. FI likes to laugh it off and pretend he's hot commodity. I would rather he tell me, even if it is from someone we know, than to hide it from me.
@SamanthaLovesJames: Heck no? What would be the point? For me to know other women find him attractive? He's cute. I already know other women find him attractive. Plus he gets hit on, looked at, heads turned a lot and that's not a conversation I want to have every other day.
He doesn't really get hit on, lol. I'm not sure he would recognize it if he did :P
My FI is such a dork he really doesn't realize he is getting hit on....hehehe.
His mates told me once that they forced him to go clubbing with them once (he hates clubs and doesn't dance!) and some girl started chatting to him while he was sitting at a booth....she then proceeded to do the 'I'm pretending to dance but I'm really trying to draw your attention to my ass and other goodies move'
his mates said my FI was totally oblivious to it all.....he had no idea that she was hittting on him...and he just sat there drinking his drink calmly looking around the club like nothing was happening!!! his mates still tease him about it all the time!!!!
My FI doesn't tell me when he gets hit on because he doen't realize its happening.......my FI's little brother is really good looking and built and he doesn't realize when girls are checking him out either....he actually thinks they are checking out my FI... (rolling eyes) I just figure that bimbo-ness runs in FI's family!!!!
My SO loves telling me because it gives me a burst of possessiveness and I usually feel the need to take him right there and then in a (wo)manly fashion. Same goes for him when I'm the one getting hit on. More than anything, I think we use it as a way of making each other feel desired and wanted, and I'd rather he be honest with me in all things.
My fiancé tells me all the time when it happens, usually right after it happens. He swears his wedding ring is going to make it happen more.
Yes we tell each other if someone is hitting on either one of us.
I had one guy openly hit onto me while SO was sitting beside me. We were at a night club and SO was watching this couple across the room (they were doing some naughty stuff in the corner) and this guy just planks himself beside me and starts telling me how great I looked and he started to hit onto me really strong.
I just played along because I thought it was hiliarous until he got up to get me a drink. I grabbed SO and we went to the next room.
One time while at a resturant this girl served us at a resturant and SO recognised her. Apparently SO was interested in her before he met me. I felt a little jealous. But kept my cool. She was giving him the flirty eyes, tone and smile. She came back to give us our coffee and she flirtedly said "I made this just the way I like it." The jealous bitch in me, reached out and stroked SO hand giving a "sweet" smile and said thanks. I discovered a few weeks later said girl ran into SO parents and gushed how she has a crush on SO and if he was single. Ever since we saw her she was pretty sour when she saw us.
Though there was this one time earlier this year. SO and I were at a pub and he went out for a smoke. He was taking a bit longer and was chatting to a strange older woman (mid 50s) he is a friendly chatty fellow. After a while he came in and got me a drink. After an hour he went back out for a smoke so I decided to join him and the woman was chatting to him while I just layed over SO. The woman goes "Hope you both enjoy talking to each other." I gave WTF look and when she went SO turned and said "Earlier she was hitting on me and offered to buy me a drink."
It can be so amusing.
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