(Closed) Does your FI/SO believe in romance?

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Does your FI/SO believe in romance?
    Yes : (26 votes)
    74 %
    No : (4 votes)
    11 %
    Other : (5 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    838 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    It sounds like he has high expectations of what romance is, that he thinks its mushy lovey dovey stuff all of the time. I would clarify with him what exactly it is that you find romantic. So like you said,going to the movies,having dinner out together somewhere etc. He may not see this as being romantic,and see it as just normal stuff that you do together.But if you explain how this makes you feel special and loved he may realise that romance isnt all about writing love songs,or poetry or releasing doves in your loved ones honour…lol. Sometimes guys just have to be TOLD!

    For example,Ive told my Darling Husband that for my birthday,all I want is a big bunch of flowers because it has never struck him to buy me any. Ever. So instead of hinting,I just outright told him

    Post # 4
    5075 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    There are different levels of romance, I guess.  Fiance does little things for me that I find romantic but he’d never call it that.

    Post # 5
    1110 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I don’t like rose petals and champagne, but I think Darling Husband is very romantic! His type of romance is more like picking me flowers, holding doors for me, always holding my hand, even just spending time together playing games or just joking around. I find his honest desire to spend quality time with me very romantic 🙂 Anything else might just seem forced because he’s not real suave hehe

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