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I asked FH about them and he said absolutely not. He doesn't want anything like that in his wallet or laying around. If one of the guys he works with sees something like that, he would be done for and never hear the end of it.
@tksjewelry: Why would it be in his wallet or at work?? I made a 5X5 leatherbound album, LOL, that will stay in his safe or whereever else he keeps his personal stuff hid away :D
@Belle2Be: haha my dh keeps his album in his secret drawer with his prized still in the plastic playboy of bridget from girls next door.... she was his favorite after having to watch that show all the time when it was on! lol
@sizzle: My uncle was on that show LOL! I only watched it a couple times, there was some serious drama that went down at the end! I felt bad for Hugh.
Belle2Be - LOL, we have teenage boys in and out of the house (his, mine, and all the friends)- nothing is safe unless it's in the gun locker. Mischief will always ensue.
I just have to say .... what guy doesn't help himself out sometimes? I think I'd have to call BS on any guy who tried to claim otherwise.
That said - I'd have no problem taking boudior pictures and I actully plan to as a first anniversary gift for DH (photos are paper, right?)!
@Mrs.KMM: I was thinking about doing them for my 1st anniversary too! Same reasoning...paper is the traditional gift ;)
@Mrs.KMM: Absolutely. Any guy who says he doesn't is lying, probably because he knows his SO will have an "issue" with it.
Mine doesn't....anymore. I did get boudoir pictures done, and I'm ok with them being a masturbation aid. In fact, I'd vastly prefer he masturbated to a picture of me than to one of a random girl from the internet! Since he has the pictures, he has no excuse to go looking on the internet for kicks! That's my attitude about it anyway.
@tksjewelry: Ah see now THAT is a valid reason. Although a teen son seeing mom in lingerie would probably stop him from snooping for the rest of his life LOL!
My guy does but doesn't see the point in boudoir pics. He has said that if *I* really want them, he thinks it may be fun to take them himself.
My husband LOVES the boudoir book I got him. It's 8x8... Honestly, I never really thought about him masturbating with it...yuck, but I guess that's part of the reason I got it. Better me than another girl right?
We also looked at it together on our wedding night and I think we'll pull it out every so often. Seeing myself look awesome in sexy pictures sets the mood...
call BS if you will but my partner doesn't ..anymore (not that he wouldn't like to).. heres the TMI -- he works with fuel oil constantly & often in very cold negative temperatures which literally turn his hands into sand paper.. I am sure you can extrapolate from there ;)
I have been considering them through a "friendor" (just building his portfolio etc), but might save them for the 1st year anniversary as well.. have not decided yet.
@missmouse29: Sorry hun, that's what lotion is for :) Mine doesn't often, simply because he doesn't have time, but I know he does occasionally.
Bwahah that is what I said.. but seriously, lotion does not work. It is mind boggling. The only we have found that is semi-helpful is vitamin-E extract, but even that is only a minor improvement.
He once took me outside in -20 C weather and put some fuel oil on my palm... it burns worse than battery acid I swear (something about the low freezing temperature & molecule sublimation). Not cool.
I actually feel pretty bad for him!
I'd be kind of, um, upset if he didn't use it to help himself out. What am I? Chopped liver?
I am planning to do them for our first anniversary. I think they would be as much for me as they are for him, honsetly. And I'm not silly enough to believe that if he has pictures of me he'll have no reason to look at pictures of other girls on the internet...now he'll just have opportunity to look at me OR other girls...or both if he wants.
He does, and I am planning on making him an album to give him before we get married. :) I would certainly hope he would use them!
@missmouse29: There are all kinds of toys that make it possible without a guy's hand. I still call BS...
What man doesn't? I'm sorry, but if you honestly believe your husband NEVER does than that's a little naive. I'm not saying all the time, but once in a while...they are men afterall.
FI is away in camp for work a lot so he already has some photos of me. I'd much rather prefer him having my picture than looking else where. That being said I'm okay with a little porn every now and then as well. It's all natural.
Edit: My man works out in the oil and gas industry as well in -40 to -50 this time of year..believe me he finds ways!! lol.
I am getting them done for our anniversary - we spend 6 straight months a year apart, so why not? I'll help anyway I can ;-)
Everyone who voted "no" my husband doesn't do that is blinded. These are men, we are talking about! Every single male does this, honestly.
I didn't get phots done, because photos arent enough for my hubby. And that's why I had a video made! Ha! totally kidding.
Yes of course he masturbates and no I didnt (and wont) get boudoir pics done. Its not that I wouldnt its just that my husband doesnt understand having a book of pictures of me in lingerie when he would rather have me dress up for him in real life! And I hardly doubt that he would ever masturbate to this if I did get it for him. I dont really know many guys that fantasize about their girlfriend or wife while they are masturbating! I have no problem with him watching porn to help him out.
I have suggested toys as well.. I think they make him ..nervous? like I said, he would, if it wasn't painful, and he DID when it wasn't.
I don't believe that he doesnt didn't ever, that would be naive. I completely encourage self stimulation, but he is at a point where he cannot enjoy it ..unaided.. atm. I am actually thinking of getting him something for xmas -- whether he uses it or not is up to him.
That sucks that he is at camp! I am sure if my partner were going for 2week+ stints solo he would suffer through it and find a way, but as it stands my partner is (generally) home every night, so like bell2be said, I have my work cut out for me ;)
Yes he does, yes I have had b-pics, and yes they have been used for that purpose. We've done videos too. I'm happy to have replaced some of the xxx collection he so nicely threw away when we got serious with better stuff, better stuff being myself :P
@PitBulLover: "I dont really know many guys that fantasize about their girlfriend or wife" I think you'd be pleasantly surprised :) They may think about stuff you don't normally do, or give you a new persona, but I think familiar territory is an easy quick fantasy for a lot of guys.
Haha he does, and I would, but this cracks me up, because like 2 months ago FI was taking a shower, and I knocked on the door to ask him a question and he wasn't answering me, and I was getting worried, so I opened the door, and he totally flipped out, and was like "Whatare you doing?" I shut the door quick,and covered my mouth to stop myself from laughing. He was masturbating to a pic. of me in a bikini on his phone in the shower. The old hold the phone outside of the shower curtain move, haha. He gets out and is like "Why did you just open the door?" I was like "If you would of just answered me quick, you could of just gotten back to your business, and I would of never came in." haha.
@teaadntoast: Right?! Is that... kinda the whole point?
I am totally gonna do boudoirs. I was thinking before the wedding, but doing them for the 1st anniversary is such a good idea!
I did them and I want my husband to use them but I'm scared that TSA will go through his stuff and don't want them seeing that stuff.
He used to do it often when we were long distance. I just asked him then if he has in a while and said he doesn't have the need now that we have sex frequently. But if he wasn't getting enough, he'd start it again.
Wouldn't do boudoirs - too risky someone finding them if a wallet was stolen and also think that mental visualization is sufficient.
LOL I think he'd love if he got to be the one taking the shots!! I say why not ... it'll be something to have too when your like 80
@HisIrishPrincess: Now, there's an idea...I bet DH would actually get into that! For me, it's a comfort issue--I couldn't find a photographer in my price range (that is to say, pretty damn cheap because I'm a student) who I felt comfortable with, so I didn't do them.
My SO does it very rarely I guess it just isn't for him. I wouldn't get a budior done because my SO wouldn't use it. He doesn't even like porn so it would be a waste.
I would love to make a book for him but mine would ask something like 'Who the hell saw you naked!?' before anything. As for the other, he hates it! I thought it was complete BS but he explained that it feels much better the...'eh...natural way and that he felt like a little boy when doing it after 17 or so. I wonder if he would be upset about a strait woman doing the pictures though...(Yes, he doesn't even like for gay women to talk to me which is hard sometimes because a very good friend I have is a gay gal) how would you go about doing the boudoir?
to those of you who think your FI doesn't masturbate....what universe are you in? I learned in one of my classes in college that 98% of men masturbate. So either you're marrying one of the 2% or you're seriously mistaken....especially since 19 percent of this thread said their man doesn't. lol. :)
@Mrs.KMM: Ohhhh, great idea for the first anniversary gift. I like it A LOT.
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help himself out?(ppsst, I'm talking about masturbation!) Are you ok with it?
Would you do boudoir shots, either DIY, or by a woman (who wont post them on the internet or anything).
Another post got me thinking, a few women said they wouldn't do them because their husbands (or FI's) wouldn't have a use for them, and or didn't want them to take them. Mine would love it, but (TMI) I also encourage him to help himself out when he feels the urge.
Sooo- lets see if there is a correlation!
(Lets pretend its DIY or by a friend with your camera, so you know there aren't any random files floating around or risk of it showing up on a photographers blog!)