(Closed) Does your guy do "girly" things with you?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
3241 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Nope. I don’t expect him to come with me to get my haircut or any other ‘girly’ stuff. We do shop together for things we buy for the house, but otherwise we each take care of buying clothes, personal items, etc……

I think if I asked him to go along he probably would, but it’s not important to me and I don’t want him to sit there being bored.

Post # 4
3830 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

bahahaha no. Definitely not.  If i begged him to he might come with me to a musical or something, but he would hate it so i dont think i would make him.

Same with hockey games.  FI wants me to go because he wants to spend time with me, but i get bored at them so i ask if he can take a friend instead.  He never forces me. 


Post # 5
6739 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

My Dh will shop with me, but that’s pretty much it.  He actually has a good eye for stuff that would look nice on me.


Post # 6
2759 posts
Sugar bee

Haha, nope. When we were first dating my SO was so apprehensive the first time we went to the mall together b/c he thought I’d want him to go to Aerie and Bath and Body Works with him. His ex used to drag him in those places every other day and make him pay for her shopping habits!

I told him thanks, no thanks, you’d just annoy me with your impatience and lack of style know-how. I’d so much rather shop or get my nails done with girls or by myself!

Post # 7
1729 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

We get pedi’s together…he loves them! Now he’s talking about getting a mani before the wedding, haha!

Post # 8
369 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

We try to do things that the other enjoys. I will go to a car show with him and he will come shopping with me (if I ask him to). If theres a beer event he would like to go to I try to get him to take a friend because it’s pretty much a waste for me to go, but he won’t go by himself so if he can’t find anyone to go with I will definitely go with him. I’ve asked him to get a manicure with me and he said he would. 

Post # 9
3429 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My FI LOVES to get pedicures I think it’s all about getting his feet rubbed, lol! He also can out Shop me!  He raised his two daughters by himself though so he’s used to girly stuff. Works for me! 

Post # 10
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

No DH would kill me if I dragged him to the nail salon.  Neither one of us really get a huge kick out of shopping other than Home Depot or Lowe’s ….you know stuff for our house lol. 

He DID use the foot massage I  got him for Christmas one year.  He was not that thrilled about the gift, until he went there and had the massage.   He has flat feet so he really loved the massage, in fact he has me doing it for him sometimes now lol.  That’s about THE girliest thing we’ve done together.

Post # 12
5479 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

He takes me to the Nutcracker every year for Christmas… and he dozes off before the Sugar Plum Fairies!  It’s a tradition for us, so even though he doesn’t particularly enjoy ballet, he takes me anyway.

No pedicures though.

Post # 13
8487 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

Nope. He doesnt even like to go shopping (mostly because I usually end up buying clothes for him.) But he has asked me before if I wanted him to take me to get my nails done. I dont know if he was planning on staying in the salon with me or not though.

Post # 14
11234 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yep! He doesn’t go everywhere with me, but he likes to get massages and just said the other day that, if we could afford it, he’d love to go and get manicures and pedicures together. He just likes being touched/pampered, though, haha. 🙂 I usually give him manicures and pedicures (otherwise his nails would be raggedly clipped and gross cuticles), but I would never want him to try on me, so I think he feels bad.

Post # 15
4313 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yes, he has been to the nail salon and hair salon with me many times.  He always has a car magazine, though haha.

Post # 16
9400 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Haha…no mine really doesn’t enjoy doing girly things with me.  He hates shopping with a passion, even going to Target or grocery shopping.  I don’t really go get my nails done myself, so I have no idea if he would enjoy it or not.  I  know he would tell me “no” if I asked him though!

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