Does your guy do this???

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Yeah.  But he gets such enjoyment out of a) planning and having surprises and b) knowing that they ARE surprises, that it’s worth it.  

I’ve learned to just ignore all hints and not worry about them because his surprises could come in a week, or in six months.  No point in wasting time wondering lol.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: Disneyland - January 2016

He tries, but I’m actually REALLY good at getting secrets out of him. It’s pretty much why I know when (ish) and where I’ll be proposed to haha. I have to reel myself back so I won’t spoil everything since he winds up feeling bad that he’s keeping something from me and ultimately giving in. The one thing he hasn’t budged on yet is what the ring looks like, and I’m likewise trying not to bug about it too much since I want to leave something as a surprise!

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Sort of. My FI is the worst with surprises but continues to plan them. He starts off so cryptic and playful about it and then ends up blabbing. I’m ok with it though.. I love teasing it out of him way more than the surprises themselves.

My birthday is coming up and he gave me my ‘surprise’ last night because he got so excited.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

PackerBackerBee:  no, DH knows NOT to do that. I am the worst person to do that to. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Usually if DH has a secret he won’t say a word. He knows all too well that I hate surprises and I hate suspense!

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