Post # 1
Fi calls me at work today and we chat for a bit, then he asks me if I have talked to FSIL yet today. Of course I say “No, why?” Then he preceeds to be all cryptic, saying, “Oh well, just wondering, even though you are not supposed to know yet, but I will tell you later!”
Here’s the thing, I working until 5 and chances are I wont get to talk to him about it because of our schedules on Thurs nights. He wont get home until after I’m in bed. WTF??
I hate when there’s some big secret that I am the only one left out on, and I have to know about it!! UGH!
Does anyone else have a guy that is always cryptic about things? It drives me crazy!
Post # 2
Yeah. But he gets such enjoyment out of a) planning and having surprises and b) knowing that they ARE surprises, that it’s worth it.
I’ve learned to just ignore all hints and not worry about them because his surprises could come in a week, or in six months. No point in wasting time wondering lol.
Post # 3
- Wedding: Disneyland - January 2016
He tries, but I’m actually REALLY good at getting secrets out of him. It’s pretty much why I know when (ish) and where I’ll be proposed to haha. I have to reel myself back so I won’t spoil everything since he winds up feeling bad that he’s keeping something from me and ultimately giving in. The one thing he hasn’t budged on yet is what the ring looks like, and I’m likewise trying not to bug about it too much since I want to leave something as a surprise!
Post # 4
Sort of. My FI is the worst with surprises but continues to plan them. He starts off so cryptic and playful about it and then ends up blabbing. I’m ok with it though.. I love teasing it out of him way more than the surprises themselves.
My birthday is coming up and he gave me my ‘surprise’ last night because he got so excited.
Post # 5
PackerBackerBee: no, DH knows NOT to do that. I am the worst person to do that to.
Post # 6
Usually if DH has a secret he won’t say a word. He knows all too well that I hate surprises and I hate suspense!
Post # 7
Daizy914: Me too!
So I wish I could tell you all it was some exciting news, but nope-FBIL is having an affair on FSIL.
So sad. 🙁