Does your husband wear his ring?

posted 3 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Does your husband wear his wedding ring?
    No, never : (14 votes)
    6 %
    Yes, all the time : (190 votes)
    77 %
    He can't because of work but does wear it when he can : (11 votes)
    4 %
    Occasionally when I remind him : (10 votes)
    4 %
    Most of the time : (21 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    2395 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I didn’t vote because my answer is most of the time. He takes it off when he comes home, and if we go out again he usually forgets to wear it.

    Post # 5
    Member
    8702 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    His job prevents him from wearing it 99% of the time. He’ll wear it when we both go out socially.

    Post # 6
    Member
    331 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2015

    My FI won’t be able to wear his at work, but has said he will wear it on weekends and when we go out during the week. I understand you’re upset, but I wouldn’t read too much into it- if he doesn’t normally wear jewellery, the ring might feel strange for him, and men are less likely to be sentimentally attached to their rings like we are. My FI doesn’t understand how I can sleep with my e-ring on… I don’t want to ever take it off if I don’t have to! 

    Post # 7
    Member
    4876 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    He wears it all the time, although there are some times he takes it off for work. I like seeing him wear it, but I’m not someone who would throw a fit if he didn’t. Growing up my dad never wore one and still doesn’t – so it was normal to me.

    Ironically one night at dinner with some friends, we got to talking about it and my DH made the comment that he feels like it’s disrepectiful to not wear your wedding ring. I thought that was kind of sweet. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    1216 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @mm86:  Prince William Doesn’t Wear a Wedding Ring

    From what I understand many guys don’t wear their wedding rings, and a lot of the time it’s just because they don’t like jewelery. I understand it can be frustrating, but as long as it doens’t seem like he is doing it because he wants to appear single I don’t see a problem. I guess it all boils down to rather or not you trust him.

    Post # 10
    Member
    1216 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @mm86:  Maybe you should remind him about the sexy part! Wink

    Post # 11
    Member
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    He isn’t technically supposed to wear it to work, but he does anyway. Like me, he never take sit off unless it’s being cleaned. It wouldn’t bother me on an emotional level if he didn’t wear it – it’s not like a ring prevents cheating, means your marriage is better, or can’t be slipped off. It would piss me off on a financial level because if he wasn’t going to wear it, I wouldn’t have bought it.

    Post # 13
    Member
    11772 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Mine always wears his, but plays with it and loses it all the time!

    Post # 14
    Member
    1367 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    DH doesn’t wear his at the gym or when cycling.  But neither do I.

    Post # 15
    Member
    7075 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    He wears his when he leaves the house, same as me.

    Post # 16
    Member
    2523 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

    @mm86:  FI is absolutely terrified of rings, but he will be wearing it. We’ve discussed it. He’s afraid of his circulation being cut off, losing the finger in a freak accident, etc. So we are going to fit his ring fairly loosely and we are getting a wood and ceramic ring that shoudl break in a bad siatuation rather than sever his finger. 

    I’m with you, it would make me nuts if he didn’t.

    Leave a comment


    Sent weekly. You may unsubscribe at any time.

    Find Amazing Vendors