Does your husband/wife or SO let you drive his or her vehicle?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Does your husband/wife or SO let you drive his or her vehicle?
    Yes, we drive each other's cars. : (139 votes)
    81 %
    No, we do not drive each other's cars. : (16 votes)
    9 %
    I hate driving. : (8 votes)
    5 %
    I love pedicures. : (8 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 2
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We each have our own car, but we frequently drive each other’s car.  I have keys to my H’s car and he has a set for mine.  Unless one party is a terrible driver or can’t drive stick or something, I don’t know why you wouldn’t share cars…

    Post # 3
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    10489 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2011

    No, because DH’s vehicle doesn’t actually belong to him, it’s a work vehicle so due to insurance and work policy I can’t.  Generally, I don’t like switching vehicles, it takes me a while to get used to the feel.  If I end up with a loaner vehicle or rental, I drive around on quiet streets/parking lots first.

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We both drive each other’s cars. But if we’re goign somewhere together my husband generally drives my car because my car has better gas mileage and I don’t like driving and he is incapable of keeping his mouth shut when I drive. 

    Post # 5
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    1104 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    We each have our own car, but we share them all the time.

    If I’m out of town for work or something, FI drives mine because it’s better gas mileage.

    If his car is blocking mine in, I’ll take his to go somewhere.

    Once we can afford it, we plan on getting a third shared car like a jeep or something for fun.

    Post # 6
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    2871 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    There were two moments in our relationship when I knew my FI loved and trusted me more than any other person in the world. The first was when he gave me his iPod to take care of, the second was when he let me drive his car for the first time.

    It’s not a regular thing by any means, and he drives mine much more than I drive his. Mine is newer with better gas millage and is less falling appart. I normally only drive his when we head out and he has drank a little more than he planned or if my car is in the shop and he as at work but I need to run errands.

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    You don’t have a poll option for me!  We have one car that we share.  We both walk to work, so we rarely need a car anyway, but it’s nice to have.

    Post # 8
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    Until recently it was only my car.  He drove it often.  Even when we went out together he’d drive my car half the time.  Now he has a new car.  I drive it, the other day he drove out and I drove back.  We now always take his car.  It’s a nicer ride than mine.  

    The day he picked it up he asked if I wanted to take it on a weekend shopping trip to the US.  I’m going Easter weekend with my mum and sister, he’s staying at home.  So he’ll have my car.  (I said yes, obviously!) 

    Post # 9
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    397 posts
    Helper bee

    MrsEME:  DH has a truck and I have a sports car. Both the same color, so they look sort of like “his and hers” cars. I’m not really a truck driving kind of girl, and he’s not a sportscar driving kind of guy. Also, he is so used to a huge vehicle (and vice-versa for me), that it’s very awkward to drive eachother’s vehicles.

    Other then that, we don’t necessarily have some weird territorial thing over our cars… if I can’t find my keys right away, I will grab his and take off to wherever I am going. Once it worked out perfectly because my keys were in his truck and I would have spent all day looking… I even go to work sometimes, since he has a separate work vehicle. So, I usually won’t waste time hunting for keys and being late. That’s really the main exception. He does the same. 

    Post # 10
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    My FI lets me drive his car all the time. But I don’t let him drive mine. He has a pretty bad driving record and I have a “nicer” car. My FI hates to drive so I pretty much do all of the driving anyway.

    Post # 11
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    1067 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    No, but it’s not because we won’t allow it.  FI and I have our own cars, and our schedules are so different that it just wouldn’t make sense to share or drive each other’s car.  

    Post # 12
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    6644 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Well we have his car and our car technically it is my car but it is in our name. We both drive each others vehicles if need to. No issues

    Post # 13
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    1566 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    MrsEME:  I guess, technically, I can’t drive my fiance’s car. Not because he wouldn’t let me, but because I haven’t developed the skillset to drive standard transmission.

    Post # 14
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    15072 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Let me? All the vehicles at my house are mine also so there is no “let me”. He drives our older car to work because he drives a lot of miles and we want to keep the miles down on our newer car. We don’t describe vehicles as his or mine, they are the truck, the Taurus or the Chevy. 

    Post # 15
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I have no problems with SO driving my car, and sometimes I’ll ask him to drive it if we’re going somewhere I’ve never been or we’ve been out and I’m tired. He’s been slowly teaching me to drive his manual when we see each other, so I’ll probably drive his car when we want to save money on gas because it’s much more fuel-efficient. He has a state-issued truck for work, and I’m not legally allowed to drive that one. But he has no issues with me driving his car once I learn.

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