Post # 1
I’ve told mine I post on a message board, but I’ve never told him really what it entails or what it’s called because:
1. We are still a ways off from engagement/weddings ..so i don’t want the name of this board to rub him the wrong way. 🙂
2. I don’t want him somehow coming across a post about him when I need to come here to vent or ask for advice. 🙂
Post # 3
Yes, he even signed up. He wanted to make silly comments on my threads and threads I post on. I told him that it made me feel uncomfortable. I don’t want him seeing my dress or anything.
Ladies, if you see TeslaAether around make him go away! He’s my troll of a FI.
ETA- I saw the account confirmation e-mail in his inbox (we share an iPad I don’t snoop in his email). He promised not to use it.
Post # 4
Yes. He doesn’t really care.
Post # 5
I have but he knows o English so it doesn’t matter lol.
Post # 6
Yes. It took me a while to admit what kind of forum this was. Now he just teases or asks “Whats happening on Weddingbee?” I’m not engaged either.
Post # 7
My fiance knows that I’ve been on here – I don’t think he knows if I have an account or if I post things regularly. I doubt he would care too much though (perhaps I’ll start posting nasty stuff about him and see what if he does stalk me here…?).
@Broken Biscuit: Love your fiance’s username!! Tesla is awesome!
Post # 8
My husband knows, and teases me about it. “What are the wasps up to today? Oh, Bees.”
Post # 9
- Wedding: June 2015 - Thorpewood
Haha yeah he knows. After he proposed and the excitement settled down a bit, he was like “are you gonna go tell the Bees?” 🙂
Post # 10
Nope. This is my free time and he has his free time. He knows im part of a message board, I know he is part of one but neither of us care what it is.
Post # 11
Yes and it cracks him up.. but then I read the bad things and come to him like “DONT DO THINGS LIKE THAT” and hes like.. oh bother. Lol
Post # 12
yes he knows, i have shown him some of my threads several times 🙂 i just hope he doesn’t have a look and see my dress when the time comes!
Post # 13
Yes, and he doesn’t care. He’s getting quite sick of hearing about it actually lol
Post # 14
Yes, he does and I share lots of information from here… espeically dresses or man rings. Some venues pics are shared, like the “dead animal” venue, we have a gazelle skeleton head and a deer head in the livingroom…
Post # 15
No, he does not, and I’m a bit paranoid he will find out! I think he might think it’s weird since we are not engaged yet, but there is a lot more to this board than just weddings…
Post # 16
@dontstopbeelievin: but there is a lot more to this board than just weddings…
That’s why I am here too, for the companionship and support other than wedding related.