Does your SO know about your vibrator?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

We use it together all the time – no it doesn’t make him insecure. My O is about me! Not his ego. He wants me to have max pleasure and is happy for “our friend” to join us as he calls it. 

Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Well considering he helped me make it (it’s actually a copy of him), I don’t think he really has an issue.  I rarely use it without him though.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

yup

Post # 5
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2151 posts
Buzzing bee

Hah, he bought it for me! So yeah, he knows. 🙂 

also, HOUSEBEE, that’s the most awesome thing I’ve ever heard. Are you a sculptor or something?

Post # 6
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667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June, 2014

Artofhim:  considering he’s the one who told me to buy it… Yep, he knows. I wouldn’t have ever thought about buying one without his prompting. We only use it together though. 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

DH knows about BOB (my battery operated boyfriend). With him being gone for work all summer, he likes to tease me about liking BOB better than him, but he’s not inseecure about it. Like the PPs, we use it together on occasion, as well.

Post # 9
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643 posts
Busy bee

housebee:  I saw this! The only thing I wondered about is having the guy stay hard with cold moulding clay all over his penis, lol. Perhaps a cock ring would solve that 😛

Post # 10
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101 posts
Blushing bee

Artofhim:  Yes, he bought it for me and we use it together every time.  I use it on myself during doggy.  It works wonders!

Post # 11
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302 posts
Helper bee

When my SO first found my vibrator he also found a rather large purple rabbit style vibe/dildo thing that was a gag gift from my college friend. I honestly don’t enjoy any non-vibe type of toys so I don’t use it, but when SO found it he was intimidated by the size and had a jealous pout session for about 2 hours until he realized he was being stupid. We use my regular vibe together sometimes, but it’s mostly just for me. The sad purple rabbit is still sad and unused. 

Post # 12
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2696 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My DH has bought all my “toys” for me as gifts. hehe. I don’t use them all that often as of late, but in no way does using them make him feel insecure or anything, he likes it. lol

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Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Artofhim:  We purchased most of them together, except for a few surprises I got on my own… So he def. knows all about them, he enjoys using them or just watching me use them, and he knows I use them on my own when he is not around. No issues with it whatsoever!! We even have a special box for all our toys next to the bed for easy access LOL

Post # 14
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851 posts
Busy bee

He bought two of mine, so he knows all about them. We use them together pretty rarely, but I use them by myself frequently. He doesn’t get insecure about it (he can’t make his “bits” vibrate lol).

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Artofhim:  He absolutely knows about it and we use it all the time. Like another PP said, my orgasm is about me, not his ego. He knows I use it without him, too. I don’t bother myself for what he does in his private time, he doesn’t bother himself in what I’m doing.

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