Does your SO know your passwords?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

He may not remember them, but I’ve told him different passwords at different times for various reasons. We don’t feel the need to know and memorize each other’s passwords/PIN numbers though. 

Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2011

There are a few, like the password for his laptop.  Not for banking, I think it’s important not to as I would never want to do something that could create an issue if there was fraud.

I trust him and he trusts me so there is no reason to have each other’s e-mail passwords.  There are enough passwords to remember, the last thing I want to do is to double them!

Post # 4
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643 posts
Busy bee

Pinkmoon:  +1. He knows but whether or not it is top of mind for him is another thing. 

Post # 5
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

DH knows every single password and pin, and I know his. It’s not like we sat down and had a talk and exchanged info. It just comes with the years, I feel you accrue info like that automatically. 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

I know his and he knows mine but that doesn’t mean we go looking through each other’s stuff. We both have nothing to hide, we use each other’s laptop’s or tablets, etc, etc and neither of us have cause to snoop on one another. 

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

No, neither of us have shared our passwords for everything, but it hasn’t really come up. I’ve had to use his phone and vice versa before, so we both know our phone passwords. I don’t even think about the others and neither does he. However, if he were to ask for mine (atm, fb, email, etc.) I would tell him and I know he would do the same. I don’t judge people who share them, what signifies trust is different in each relationship, passwords are not required in mine. I would actually find it strange if he all of a sudden needed to know them and would feel a little offended, because it would lead me to believe he doesn’t trust me and wanted to snoop through my stuff.   

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I know all of hisand I’ve told him all of mine, but the only one he ever remembers is my email password (my dad made it ages ago and used my name as my password) and sometimes my PIN. I usually have to remind him of that one though. Hes a very forgetful guy.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Nope. I know his laptop password and can unlock his phone, but don’t have passwords on either of mine, so those don’t apply. Neither of us knows email passwords or banking PINs

Post # 10
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Helper bee

 

katielove:  He’ll tell me his, and I’ll tell him mine but I dont think either of us ever remember. Neither of us have anything to hide. I guess if he was worried about me having it, I’d assume he’d be worried I’d find something I wasn’t supposed to.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

We know them, but more as a convenience-when we use each other’s computers and log the other out of FB or email, we make sure to log them back in at the end. He also takes care of our finances, so he has all my banking passwords, and while I could probably guess them, even I don’t know how to access my account online. I keep track of our medical stuff, so I know he doesn’t know his username/password for his medical portals. I think it just comes naturally, and it makes it easier if you need something from your email or something, that your SO can go in and get it.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

 

katielove:  FI knows my ATM password and phone password…he doesn’t know my email or facebook bc it has never came up that he needed it.  If he asked me I wouldn’t think twice about giving it to him, but there just really isn’t a reason that i would need to know his or that he would need to know mine.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I don’t “know them” but he has told me them/ would tell me them! He has me answer his phone or text from his phone so I can occasionally see all his messages as well, and he mine. total trust

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I’ve told him all my passwords, but I don’t keep them written down and I’m pretty sure he doesn’t remember a single one!!

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