Does your SO like to touch your stomach?

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2015 - City Winery New York, NY

 

TwinkleBoss:  OMG, what is up with that??? My fiance is always rubbing my belly when we cuddle and I am SO NOT PREGGO!! I thought it was just one of his quirks. I feel bad because I’ve been short with him about it lately because I HATE it. It drives me bonkers.

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

TwinkleBoss:  Oh, not pregnant? No not really…it’s a “sensitive” area for me too. He might be touching if we’re spooning. But not rubbing or anything. We’re more of head rubbers lol

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

This could be something he picked up if someone (his mom for example) did for him when he was a kid and it was calming so he thinks it has the same effect on you? I don’t know…

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

TwinkleBoss:  I’m sure everyone has their “thing”. Thank goodness my DH doesn’t do that because I’m super sensitive about my belly, too! That’s where most of my chub is.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: Aug 30th, 2014

I don’t like people touching my stomach either because I’m self-conscious about my weight. My fiance doesn’t really rub my tummy, I think he’s picked up that it makes me feel nervous. We do rub each others backs, arms, hair/head, and sides to help fall asleep! It’s relaxing, and it helps to focus on something physical. We usually just face each other and lay on our sides, so it would be awkward to try to rub bellies anyway.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2014

TwinkleBoss:  he likes to pat it sometimes lol if it’s looking trim/slim.. I’m glad he doesn’t rub it though as round my belly-button is quite sensitive, and not in a good way! 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: Train station ceremony / Hilton reception

My fiance and I have been together for several years and he just recently started rubbing my tummy, lol.  TMI ALERT:  He actually did it when I was about to orgasm, and it made the orgasm more intense.

 

Maybe let him go at it and you guys will start to like it! 

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Ugh yes! He will like rub and grab at my belly and I have a little pooch there that is my #1 most self conscious part of me… I ask him all the time NOT TO TOUCH MY STOMACH but he doesn’t listen. >.<

Post # 10
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I LOVE having my belly rubbed. He does it ocassionally, I wish he do it more. Sometimes I just pick up his hand and put it on him and tell him “RUB!”. When he wants to knock me out to put me to sleep quickly he defintely rubs it LOL. Never realized that other women wouldn’t like it that much.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014 - Italian Villa

TwinkleBoss:  MY HUSBAND DOES THIS! I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!  Sorry for the yelling, lol.

Personally, I hate it, because I’ve gained a bit of weight there, and it feels like he’s calling attention to it. Though I didn’t like it before that, either. 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

My FI does this, and I hate it!! I keep telling him too! Although now it’s become a little more of a joke, because we’ve been talking about when we would have kids etc. so I’ve told him to stop until we have a baby, and he keeps saying ‘well let’s get busy then’! lol

Post # 13
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Blushing bee

Yes and I HATE it! Sometimes he’ll even joke, “how’s our baby?!” WTF I’m not pregnant, dude! 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Every man I’ve ever been with has looooved stroking my stomach. I gave up being sensitive about it and just let it become a joke: “Go figure the one place every man instinctively wants to touch is the one place every woman is reflexively self conscious about…”

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