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Does your wedding dress look like you thought it would?

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    august15bride    August 15, 2009   St. Petersburg, FL

    I wasn't sure how to word the title, but basically the dress I bought isn't the dress I thought I would buy when I went shopping.

    I wanted something very simple - but when I put them on, I didn't feel like a bride. It just felt like...a dress.

    I tried on one with bling and a bigger skirt and...wow. I felt like a bride! I would have sworn my dress would be simply and lacy, and instead it is taffeta with bling and a big skirt. And it is perfect for me.

    Did your dress turn out to be what you expected?

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    birdofparadise      

    not at all! i wanted simple. dropped waist. strapless. plain. no sequins or other do-dads on the dress. i looked everywhere and didn't find what i was looking for. i ended up with a reem acra [hello do-dads!] and loved, loved it!

     
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    Future Mrs M    1-11-11   Michigan

    My dress is actually something like I wanted it to be. Well sorta lol. Getting married on the beach i didn't want something too crazy, something plain was ideal. All the plain "beachy" dresses I tried on made me feel like I was just trying on a pretty white dress, not my wedding dress. The first time i tried on dresses I wouldn't even look at anything that had beading or was more formal. The second time, my mom talked me into trying on some with beading, and I ended up leaning towards all lace with all over beading. I went a couple of other places, but I still couldn't find what I wanted. The last time I tried on dresses, I was just trying on whatever. After you try on over 100 dresses you need to broaden your horizons a little. I tried on a dress that was hideous on the model in the catalog and ended up falling completely in love with it. Its a halter (which i wanted nothing to do with) with ruching and a band around the waste (whcih i also wanted nothing to do with).

     
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    I knew I wanted something relatively simple, and that's pretty much what I got.  it does have a few sparkles and a little lace, but it's plain for the most part!

     
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    frenchbulldog    August 22, 2009   Dana Point, CA

    Not really, but I guess kinda.

    I really didn't want a corset back or gathering... but I wanted lace and something A Line but form fitting. So, it was half what I thought and half what I didn't.

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    Not at all.  I wanted my dress a little more blingy and the one I ended up with was more simple. 

     
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    tenmylove    August 22, 2009   Wisconsin

    I wanted a totally plain and simple dress, but maybe mermaid or trumpet style. I ended up falling in love with a straight lace dress and then a Jackie-O type classic satin dress that just reminds me of something so elegant and timeless. I can't believe I parted with that lace gown and picked the other! So no, not at all!

     
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    peeptoe    May 30, 2009   San Francisco, CA

    My dress was nothing like I thought it would be, but it was the hit of the party!! I loved it.

     
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    catlady    June 26, 2010   Toronto

    Pretty close.  I knew I wanted something with lots of detailing and puffy.  In the end, I got what I was looking for originally but with more detailing and puffier than I thought I would go for.

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    ES123    April 25, 2009   Laurel, MD

    I didn't have a specific idea of what I wanted, but I don't think I ended up with it, if that makes sense. I thought I had to have straps, and didn't like lace. So...of course I ended up with a strapless dress, covered in lace!

     
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    hhcheung2000       San Diego, CA

    It was funny because I ended up buying two dresses because I really fell in love with the second dress I put on.  But ironically, when I got the second dress back, it didn't look the same as what I expected so I will be wearing the dress I initially chose the first time around.

     
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    mountain.bride    December 12, 2009   Australia

    I was fairly sure I wanted a v-neck, but that's as far as I'd gotten! I swoon over lovely lacey gowns and tend to pass over the taffeta/pouffy/super traditional type things. In the end, I got an Alfred Angelo - v-neck, yes, but also taffeta and with a much bigger skirt and train than I'd imagined! And I had the same reaction as you - this dress made me feel like a BRIDE, and that's what sold it to me in the end. (That, and when I took my mother to look at it, she got teary.) I didn't even know I wanted to feel like a bride!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Nope!  I wanted simple, no beading, no strapless, no ruffles.  Bwah hah hah hah!  Can you say antithesis?!

     
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    poodle    April 1, 2010   California / Planning Process in Chile

    I wanted a really tight one and end up making a puffy bottom dress. That was just the start!! I'm always thinking about re-doing something, lucky for me I still have plenty of time to play with it :)

     
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    chicagobride092010    January 2010   Canada

    Before I went dress shopping i made a binder of maybe 10-15 dresses I liked to show the sales consultant what I was looking for.  The dress I chose was the first one in my binder and the first one I tried on (although I did try on almost 50 others over a few weeks).

     
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    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    I thought I wanted something completely different from what I ended up buying.  I was looking for not-strapless, no beading/lace/detailing, white-white.  I bought strapless with lace and beading in ivory.  I think I just didn't know what looked good on me  until I started looking. I loved the look of something else on paper, but it just never felt good on.

     
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    Oh I thought I'd end up with a very simple, no lace, trumpet dress with clean lines and no frills. When I went shopping, I tried on every dress that the consultant pulled out and every dress I thought looked different from what I've already tried on. I ended up with an A-line, lacy top with layered ruffles on the skirt. I love it!

     
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    Mermaid1082    September 4, 2010   St Louis, MO

    I went in wanting a big poofy princess dress and ended up with something a lot simpler.  But it exceeds expectations! 

     
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    Shoe Queen    November 7, 2009   West Palm Beach, FL/wedding in Jacksonville, FL

    I wasn't really sure what I wanted and I tried on everything from poofy to simple to sparkly to lacy. I ended up with a strapless, very "bridal" couture gown. It's perfect!

     
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    Firefighter_Prazs_Girl    02/3/2010 and 05/03/2010   Angleton Texas

    I am having so much trouble with this. I wanted something simple and flowing but when I put those dresses on they just dont feel right. But I feel like that is what I HAVE to choose. But really like I like a little unique flare!

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    LisaAnn300    October 10, 2009   Houston/Salt Lake City

    My dress isn't anything what I thought it would be.  Before trying on I wanted no strapless, simple, and a structured fabric like tafeta.  I ended up with a strapless dress, with beading and chiffon.  Nothing like I thought I would get!

     
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    Thao    June 19, 2010   Columbus

    My dress is absolutely what I wanted--I was pretty single-minded when shopping. Tea-length, simple, flouncy. I tried on other ones just for fun, though, and if we were having a different kind of wedding, one of the more elaborate ones would have made me happy too! 

     
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    Muffet    September 12, 2009   Oakland, CA

    This is going to sound bizarre...but my fiance picked out my dress before we were engaged.  We were walking by a store in Portland, OR and he saw this dress in a window and told me to try it on.  A few months later we were engaged and a few month after that I returned to Portland to get the dress.  My mom hated it, which was heart-breaking, but I loved it and I knew my fiance loved it.  I didn't have a "dress vision" per se, but I definitely didn't expect my fiance to pick out for me.  I have my fitting in a couple weeks and I can't wait to see it again! Does your wedding dress look like you thought it would? :  wedding Icon Biggrin

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    tessabella76    September 12, 2009   Ohio

    Kind of. I liked the lacey, flowy, romantic dresses and I liked the short, tea lenghth vintage looking dresses. So I went shopping with both in mind and would try on either style. I ended up with a strapless, tea-length, ivory dress with a little lace and beading.

     
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    I wanted something romantic, flowy with some sort of sleeve and no poofy. That's exactly what I got, even though I tried on some pretty fantastic anti-theses of my dress.

     

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