(Closed) DOH!!! Facebook/STD faux pas!!!!!

posted 8 years ago in Technology
Post # 3
210 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

just let her know how you feel. And quickly, before any damage is done.

Give her a call and thank her for saying she likes your STD, but that -while you would have loved to invite everyone you both know- that just isn’t feasible, and you’d appreciate her being discrete. Make it like a fun secret – she’s on your short list of good friends, but she needs to keep it on the DL so others won’t have their feelings hurt.

Post # 4
244 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Awww. I feel your pain.  I’ve had similar things posted on my FB wall and I find it very frustrating.  I think you just have to hope that people are adults and undestand that weddings are expensive and not everyone can be invited.  Chin up, this won’t seem like a big deal in a couple of weeks.

Post # 5
1209 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

What a pain!! Do you know her well enough that you could ask her to delete the post? Just explain your situation to her…surely she will understand. Oh! Also let her know that you are touched and it means a lot that she is so excited about your special day! =)

Post # 6
90 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I’d let her know how you feel like the others have said too…but let her know how much you were touched so she doesn’t take offense! Haha, personally I wasn’t really ashamed to post my Save-The-Date Cards and invites on facebook because I designed them and wanted to get people’s opinions…maybe I shouldn’t have though. haha

Post # 8
2186 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

yeha i have had to delete a few really excited nice awesome wall comments because we are having a small wedding and i dont want people to be mad or offended. but the folks who i did invite understand when i send messages along the lines of “please dont post this on fb” and kinda feel like they are in an exclusive club or something LOL

Post # 9
337 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I have had to delete comments off of my wall as well.  I just explain that it’s a small wedding and I don’t want others’ feelings hurt who weren’t invited.  Definitely stressed me out at first!

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