Doing the deed when you have house guests…

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Treejewel19:  I just refuse to do the deed with hoseguests, as I would like people to do for me! I would hope that the four days I could visit someone they could abstain from sex in the next room! 😛

Grosses me out on both ends!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

My husband’s parents are from Michigan and watched our dog for us while we were on our honeymoon and took us to the airport so they came down a few days before the wedding. They stayed in a hotel the night of our wedding and we went back to the house. They came home from the hotel the next day (Sunday), before we had to leave for our honeymoon Monday morning. My husband’s house is a cramped 2 bedroom, 1 bathroom that used to be his parents house (unfortunately, we hate this place) so they were sleeping in his old room and we were in their old room, weird.

We definitely didn’t let that stop us. If you are trying to conceive, I wouldn’t let that stop you, just try to be as quiet as possible! Good luck.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

We’ve DTD while his dad has stayed with us. We just keep it quiet and had our fan and TV on in the background.

 

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

Psshh, whatever.  Sounds like you need to make it happen.  At the risk of major TMI – maybe just have him bend you over or whatever, nice and quiet?  Ack, I’m blushing just writing that.  But there are ways to get er done without having it be a drawn-out squeaky bed session…

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

We don’t let houseguests bother us.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

My FIL moved in with us for over two months while he was searching for a house up here. Ummm, you better believe we didn’t abstain for that whole time. We just were extra quiet that’s all. Same thing when we visited my parents for three weeks.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Treejewel19:  I laughed at this thread title!!! The things we have to do when TTC! Ill admit, in the past I wouldn’t even think of BD when I’ve visitors. I’m weird like that, though I know others are not so.. I heard them!!! However, when TTC all bets are off. Enjoy your (quiet) bding!!! 😉

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@FutureMrsHallam:  I agree, it totally grosses me out too!! However FW is so small I would say there’s not much choice in this case. I certainly wouldn’t be waiting another month. TTC is hard enough as it is!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@phoebephoebo:  I think Im weird in that I would just wait another month! But then, I know Im erm, “extra”? fertile bahaha, so I probably don’t count! 🙂 I understand that for some it really is a month-to-month thing where every chance counts!

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Absolutely yes! I remember one time doing it on the floor because we were worried about the creaking bed.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@FutureMrsHallam:  Believe me, I’d be the same. We’ve never to date BD when someone is in the house. I’ve heard others at it and HATE it! Ugghh! However, currently we’ve been TTC for 7 months so all bets are off! 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@paula1248:  Hilarious! Must remember that if it comes to it!!!

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Do it! We haven’t had houseguests but when all those tornadoes went through in 2011 we had to stay at FI’s parent’s house for over a week. His mom is one to bust in so we not only had to be quiet but we couldn’t make it obvious just in case she barged into his room. We did it lying on our sides with him behind me like we were just cuddling and pretended we were going to take a nap. I don’t know if it was the trying to be secretive or what, but it was one of our best times. I know I wouldn’t waste a month of TTC just because of houseguests. But I’d definitely be respectful of unnecessary noises 🙂

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Treejewel19:  I don’t think sex is gross, or a big deal. Most lucky adults do the deed regularly. As long as you are respectful (eg quiet), then no worries! Good luck and happy BD-ing!

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