Doing things in the wrong order?

posted 3 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
552 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I bought my dress before my engagement ring even came in! It was just the perfect dress, and I had to buy it. My FI was totally with me on it, and he actually paid for it. I think it’s perfectly fine. As long as you’re not doing something crazy like sending invitations out without having booked the venue I don’t think the traditional timeline really matters that much. After all, even if it turns out you can’t book your venue on the day you want, you will still need a dress for whatever date you do pick!

Post # 4
2385 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@renwoman:  We’re both backwards kinda people so yes we have & it always works out just fine. We booked our venue & I had made our STD’s before he even proposed! We talked about getting married, set a date, told the family, but I wanted a real proposal so I never doubted that he was just going along for the ride…

That’s just how we do it in our household!

Post # 5
2070 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012 - Oak Tree Manor

@renwoman:  Aw sweetie you’ll be fine! It’s actually sweet that you have your dress already, because sometimes there’s a longggg lag time between when you order your dress, and when it actually comes in – it took me 8 months to get my dress after I placed my order at a bridal salon here! Just don’t spend TOO much time looking at dresses between now and the wedding; a lot of bees have fallen into the pitfall of dress regret. Still, I think you’ll be just fine – I ordered my dress in January, and we didn’t get married until 10 months later.

I really don’t think there is a super strict timeline that you have to stick to – you know what you want, and as long as you book things early enough while they’re still available, then you’re fine! We booked our photographer before our venue (whoopsie!) but luckily they were both available for the same date. We procrastinated on a lot of things, like planning our flowers and choosing a bakery to make our cake. Good luck wedding planning, and enjoy every second of your engagment, it flies by!

Post # 6
682 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My order was:

1. ring/engagement

2. dress

3. venue (then scrap venue, plan intimate destination wedding)

5. plane tickets

6. everything else

My dress did take forever to come in, though.  So it barely made it for the wedding.

Post # 7
5087 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

It really doesn’t what order things get done. It’s my new mantra since moving up our wedding date. 8 months to get everything done!  I hope I haven’t bitten off more than I can chew! 

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