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posted 1 year ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: How much money do you typically give as a gift, per couple?
    Under $20 : (2 votes)
    2 %
    $20-$49.99 : (8 votes)
    9 %
    $50-$74.99 : (17 votes)
    18 %
    $75-$99.99 : (14 votes)
    15 %
    $100-$150 : (29 votes)
    31 %
    $150-$200 : (16 votes)
    17 %
    $200+ : (7 votes)
    8 %
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    milesbella    September 17, 2011   Iowa

    The cultural differences post got me thinking.

    Per couple, how much do you typically give as a wedding gift?  Also post your location.

     
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    missmouse29    July 2011   NWOntario, Canada

    Usually 50-100$, but I voted 50-75$

     
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    PinkBubbleGum    September 2011  

    Somewhere around $100, depending on how well we know the couple and the other costs of attending the wedding (travel, etc)

    EDIT: I'm in the Northeast.

     
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    .twist.    October 7, 2011   Alberta, Canada

    Between $50 - $75, although, if I know the couple really well, I'll do $100. I'm in Eastern Canada.

     
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    luckyprincess       New Jersey

    In Northern NJ and we do $150 - 200 in our card.

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    im in sydney/australia and usually a min of $200 per couple (cost of our dinner) unless you are family or i really like you then its higher.

     

     
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    Gabrielle123    November 5, 2011  

    we do about $100. sometimes its more if its a close relative - like a sibling.

     

    im in PA

     
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    Bostonsmom    October 9, 2011   canada

    I'm in Canada, and it's usually about $100. Maybe more if I really like you!

     
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    WannaBeDIYBride       grand blanc, mi

    Depends on how close we are to the couple and how much extra money we have at the time (ha), normally between $50 and $100.  I'm in Michigan.

     
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    kperry3    January 1, 1991  

    I'm from Georgia and I usually give about $20 worth for a gift. Honestly, I've been using the "poor college" student excuse. Maybe if I had a professional job I would spend more. I can't wait until this summer when I do have one :)

     
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    EleanorRigby    June 2011  

    I'm from NJ and woul always give $100/couple... and this was even when I was a student.  I live in MD now, and am starting to get the sense that it might be high for people around here.  I've also noticed that more people in MD give gifts rather than cash for weddings. 

    I didn't think there would be such a huge difference b/w MD and NJ b/c they are sort of in the same region.  Maybe it's just FH's MD family and friends?  I'm pretty confused lol.

     
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    cakegal    August 14, 2010  

    I give a gift, never cash. The cost ranges from $50-$200, depending on our relationship.

     
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    BlueChampagne    June 2011   NY

    I always give $100 from the 2 of us.  I even gave this much while I was a student. 

    If someone gave me a blank card, or even $20, I would appreciate it.  However, I would feel embarassed to give that amount. 

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    I always give a gift, never cash, but that gift is priced at about $100/couple (I also spent this when I was a student - although I was single so it was $50-$60 from me as an individual).  I am from IN and DH is from GA.

     
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    kelmac    September 26, 2009   Ontario, Canada

    $200. Ontario, Canada

     
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    sceeder    June 23, 2012  

    $100-$150, I currently live in Central Canada (SK) but I am originally from Ontario.

     
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    KendraJ    September 23, 2011   Seattle, Washington

    Depends how well I know the couple.  If they aren't best friends or family, only $50.  If we are closer, we spend more for gifts ($200+).

     
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    lefeymw    April 16, 2011   CT

    Not only does it depend on how well we know them, but also the socio-economic class of them. We do fairly well and I have friends from home that don't fall in our bracket so if we gave too much I know that they would be making comments about it. So I try to adjust based on that as well. Therefore it is anywhere from 100 - 200.

    Although most recently I gave 3 bottles of nice wine with cards and poems attached. They were chosen to get better with age. The first bottle was for their 1 year anniversary (champagne), then 3 and 5 year anniversaries (red wines).  

    If I cant attend a wedding I will have an actual gift shipped, but cash if I am going.

     
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    suubchb    March 3, 1991  

    me and the fiance typically give $100-150 (although once $75 because broke and not close to bride/groom at the time), but for close friends $200-$250

     
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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Usually between $150-$200.  We're in Los Angeles.

     
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    CinnamonHeart    July 9, 2012  

    300 (me and FI) or I will put $100-$150 just if im solo

     
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    cutexkitty    October 1, 2011   Bay Area / Northern CA

    $100 per person or $200 FI and I. If I the bride and groom are closer friends, I give more.

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    We usually give 100 to basic weddings, and 150 to people we're closer with.  We haven't had a sibling get married yet, but maybe more for them?

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    If we're not close with the bride and groom we'll do $200/couple (cash, never gift).  For closer friends or family we give more.  If we're not going to the wedding we'll send a gift usually around $75.

     
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    aandmklover    September 10, 2010   Mid-West Michigan

    $100 from us. I do also take venue into account and how much the couple is paying vs. the parents. (if I know) I am from the Mid-West. =-)

     
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    Miss Zig Zag    March 27, 2011   Anaheim

    We typically give 200, but if it's a close friend then we'll give more. I'm from LA

     
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    jayce    December 10, 2010  

    $100-150. More if it's a very close friend. Last year I got invited to a bride's shower, but not to her wedding. That time I gave a gift worth $20.

     
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    CinnamonHeart    July 9, 2012  

    @jayce: Invited to the shower and not to the wedding?? thats kinda rude

     
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    kimmylyn    November 6, 2010   Boston, MA

    Usually $100-$150... sometimes more depending on the relationship to whoever is getting married.

    I live in the Boston area.

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    So far we have only ever given something off the registry as a gift but if we were to give cash we would probably give $100

     
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    CTbride2010    January 14, 2012   CT

    $200 more if they are family. I'm in CT.

     

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