- 3 years ago
Last November I ended a relationship he committed domestic abuse of a psychological, emotional, financial and physical nature. We had to remain living together until Feb 2014.
He triies contacting me numerous timea through, friends, family and my current partner, at times he got verbally abusive. They told him to leave me alone.
Then he stared asking for his share of a deposit for a joint apartment. That deposit was nothing to do with him. My grandmother loaned me the money, I paid her back when i recieved the deposit at end if tenancy. He thinks he’s entitled to half.
He bought me a gym membership as a way to bully me into losing wieght, it’s 100% in his name. He never once said it was a loan. After being harassed about attending the gym I begged him to cancel it he refused. Now he’s demanding two years worth of fees to be paid back to him.
He wants half of the utility bills that are in his name, because I lived with him. I paid different bills and was on a much lower wage. He moved 3 people in and out of the property without my consent but is not chasing them for “their share”.
Hes also decided to do this at the end if my pregnancy when I’m ready to burst and he expects me to attend mandatation (sp) meetings and then possible court if we can’t agree on a sum. I also suffer a sever mental illness (anxiety disorder)
I am petrified of seeing this guy again, I feel like I’ve been sucked into a black whole, I can’t eat, I can’t sleep, I can’t keep my thoughts straight and I fear it’s putting my baby and pregnancy at risk. I’m having panic attacks, heart palpatatiobs and shaking uncontrollably at the idea of facing him.
it got so bad I actually phoned the Police yesterday, they have filed a Domestic Abuse report, I feel if I have to face in him court then it shouldn’t be over petty money but for everything’s he’s done to me over our 3 year relationship. The police put me at medium risk but it would of been high risk if he lived locally.
I’m so scared 🙁 anyone got advice?