Done Planning before the planning is done?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: What do you think?
    I'll show up and nothing will be done. : (3 votes)
    33 %
    I'll show up and everything will be half-a** thrown together by someone, besides FH or his family. : (3 votes)
    33 %
    I'll show up and FH will have actually gotten things done and it'll be lovely. : (1 votes)
    11 %
    I'll show up and FH will have thrown together half-a** plan. : (1 votes)
    11 %
    I'll show up and and FH will have convinced his mom and/or sister to throw together a half-a** plan. : (1 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    502 posts
    Busy bee

    You’ll find love and happiness and the perfect amount of booze.

    Post # 4
    Member
    509 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    My wedding is 2 weeks away also and I know that if I just quit now, nothing would be finished.  So I think if you really care about the details, then you might want to make sure someone knows what still needs to be done.  Maybe give FI a list of things to finish?

    There is no way that anyone would know what is running through my head of things left to do.

    And if you haven’t taken the linens out and ironed them, I highly recommend you make sure someone do it.  I just unpacked ours yesterday and every single thing needs to be ironed.

    But, if you really don’t care about the things left to do, then go for it!  Just don’t be disappointed if you get there and it isn’t done.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1560 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @Goofball:  You are a brave, brave woman. Much more fearless than I. I have too many control needs to ever through caution to the wind like this.  🙂

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