- 5 years ago
ok this is what I have been told by several people even strangers. telling me i shouldnt get married and that marriage is hard. 1st of all i am single and I do intend to get married in the future. I believe that life is challenging and ofcourse married life will also be challenging because it involves 2 different people from different backgrounds, views, cultures, faiths, races etc etc and between them they can make it work because every relationship is different you have to find out what works for you and not generalise or rely on other people’s relationship advices and stuff. Its bad enough that people feel the need to direct my footsteps and discourage me or any one else. I will get married when I am emotionally ready, financially ready, spiritually ready and not on anybody’s terms but mine because marriage involves 2 people not everybody else’s voices because we already hear the voices of parents/family/society/the media etc confusing the goy out of people.
I believe that life is about going through different shades of darkness and also going through different beautiful shades of the rainbow and in all that find balance, find strength, learn about yourself and others or the world around you, be patient and always have love, hope and faith.