(Closed) Don’t know why this bothers me…should I let it go?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@SamanthaSadlier: How often does he get on there? Honestly I RARELY log into myspace anymore and I know DH doesn’t either. Maybe it’s not really a battle worth having if he is never on?

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’d say let it go. There are going to be a million more important things in your life and it just doesn’t make sense to make an issue out of this.

Does your husband use his myspace? My FH has a ton of female myspace friends and it use to make me uncomfortable (I never said anything to him though). I came to realize that he never talks to these girls and rarely goes on his myspace anyway, so there was no reason to be upset. (But he is the type of person to not ever delete friends, so I don’t know if your husband is different.)

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I’d just let it go. It doesn’t sound like he uses the account anymore.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I can completely relate to your story Samantha and I am positive that a million other girls have and are going through the exact same thing.

It all honesty.. it seems pretty normal and healthy for your typical single guy (that he was in the past). I would let it go 100%, but ONLY if he does not use his Myspace anymore or have any contact with these women.

Men tend to be a little slow with things and are not on top of their game like US females haha. I know I made a point to delete all my past including old profiles or networking pages once I met my fiance… my fiance on the other hand said that it didn’t even cross his mind to delete old pages and profiles and forgot about it until I brought it up.

If it really does bother you..then I suggest you simply bring it up, but more in a joking way and don’t get upset at him. Just tell him.. “hey babe, do you even use your myspace anymore? I came across your page and I think its a little outdated mr playboy” lol. He will take the hint and probably want to hurry erase crap before you start finding things to “bitch” at haha.

 

Hey… I always try to look at it as.. if my ex had many girls or even “hot bikini” girls in his past… then he must have been what all these girls wanted..and guess what… I GOT HIM! He liked it so much..he put a ring on it honey! LOL

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

It’s ok that you feel the way you do, but don’t let it get the best of you. I call this “girl brain” and you need to let it go. It’s a small, simple thing which could blow up badly for no real gain at all.

You said it yourself, it makes you feel like a jealous 15 year old, so leave the 15 year old in your head and be an adult in your actions. You’ll just feel worse for bringing it up.

It’s the holidays and you are marrying the man of your dreams, don’t let this bring you down.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I say letit go – I have an old myspace account that I never use, but can’t even delete because I don’t remember my password or which email I had used to set it up! Ha!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@SamanthaSadlier: Yup ! Same thing happened here. However, I am not as good a woman as you, lol, and brought it up immediately, only, these were facebook chicks and not myspace. he gave me his password and told me delete them all. I gladly did so, lol.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’d let it go. My myspace account probably still says I’m single and may or may not have pics of my ex. I haven’t been on it in forever.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I would let it go.  He probably forgot all about it, and will think your making a mountain out of a mole hill. I know i haven’t checked myspace in MONTHS.  Now that i think about it I don’t remember the password lol

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Like PP’s, I think the general population of women can agree with that little jealousy bug that pops up out of nowhere over petty things. we’re only human right? 🙂

I’d definitely let it go! I know that Myspace has made it quite difficult to close your account… DH tried to a few years back and they wouldn’t let him because it was open under an e-mail account that he had through a former cable company that got cancelled. To this day, DH still has his myspace account, but he never uses it.

I think I deleted mine a while back.

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think FI and I are both still single according to Myspace. If you’re around our age (early 20s), the last time he probably used it was in high school, and really…high school boys will be stupid 80% of the time :0).

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@SamanthaSadlier: My honey didn’t bat an eye but that’s because he was the one as your honey is the one !

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