(Closed) Dont want her in our pro family photo’s

posted 7 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
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5655 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

Take one shot with her in it..,.. “the whole family” and then call out ppl directly.

Keep family pictures short and talk with your photog AHEAD of time… give a list of specific shots you want (please take time to make this.. you will be so happy you did)

And then from your wedding date… who knows maybe by that time things will be smoothed out ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 4
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340 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I had the very very exact same problem. My brother in law’s wife and I do not get along. Here is what I did. I took variations of the photos. Some with her and some without her. I made sure to get some with his family and us alone and one with her in it. This will appease everyone and you can just choose to have the one you wanted printed for your album! ๐Ÿ™‚ I think it’s best to just bite the bullet and be the bigger person. That is what I had to do. Best of luck! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

i agree, if you are having pics, of the whole family i think she needs to be in them. but that doesnt mean that you have to do anything with those. talk to the photog about it before so they know the situation

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@astrakotter: I know what your saying. At my brother in laws wedding I wasnt asked to be in any of the family photos. I don’t think their is a single photo of me at all. My FI and I were engaged at the time. Just feel good knowing you didn’t stoop to her level! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Can you take one with her and one without? Then just order the one without her. Prob the best way to avoid drama

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