Dont want my FI's mom at the wedding

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
2962 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@jbbs1222:  It’s YOUR wedding therefore you guys have control of the guest list. If her side of the family doesnt even want her there, I dont thik she will be missed very much.

Post # 4
929 posts
Busy bee

@jbbs1222:  Don’t invte her. If her own son doens’t want her there, then problem sorted. 

Post # 5
1343 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@jbbs1222:  I see it that you have two options. Either tell her to shape up or ship out. And then tell her your expectations for her behavior at the wedding. (This option might not go over too well) 

Or you could just not invite her. It’s your wedding, your choice. If your FI really dislikes her so much and you’re a nervous wreck because of it, cut the ties. I know it’s hard. But it might need to be done. 

Post # 6
1793 posts
Buzzing bee

I read your other post yesterday.  You have a sad situation on your hands for sure.  I really encourage the two of you to sit down with FFIL in all of this and talk with  him.  Even though he puts up with her, he sounds like a reasonable man and may be abel to give you guys some good counsel.

I completely understand why you don’t want her there, but keep an open mind regarding what will happen if you DON’T invite her and what those repercussions will be.

Post # 7
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

If your FI is fine with her not being there, don’t invite her!

Post # 8
69 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@jbbs1222:  I just read your other post. Do not invite this woman to your wedding, she will RUIN it. 

Post # 9
171 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

OMG we are in the same sitatuion with the same wedding date!! LOL

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