Post # 1
if you didnt read my other post about her heres that to kind of understand the background of whats up. http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/my-fmil-is-insane#axzz2frlhR29W
Anyway, my FI wants nothing to do with her, and as bad as it sounds has said a few times that he would be fine if she passed away. and that was even said before all this new stuff came up. hate to say it but i feel the same cause i dont want to be related to that psycho! i know that all sounds really bad but neither one of us can take it anymore. the whole family wants her gone (not dead but like moved out or to leave and just go away so no one has to deal with her). she always complains her husband treats her so horrible but she wont ever leave cause thats her meal ticket and she would actually have to take care of herself for once. anyway i mentioned tonight that i honestly dont want her at our wedding cause i know shes going to be doing stupid stuff like this again or trying to pull all the attention to her like she always does and more then likely will ruin our special day. my FI was perfectly fine with that. he totally agreed with me. is this ok that we dont invite her? we have just had so many problems with her and neither of us want her there.i know tho if we dont invite her shes going to go even more psycho.
Post # 3
@jbbs1222: It’s YOUR wedding therefore you guys have control of the guest list. If her side of the family doesnt even want her there, I dont thik she will be missed very much.
Post # 4
@jbbs1222: Don’t invte her. If her own son doens’t want her there, then problem sorted.
Post # 5
@jbbs1222: I see it that you have two options. Either tell her to shape up or ship out. And then tell her your expectations for her behavior at the wedding. (This option might not go over too well)
Or you could just not invite her. It’s your wedding, your choice. If your FI really dislikes her so much and you’re a nervous wreck because of it, cut the ties. I know it’s hard. But it might need to be done.
Post # 6
I read your other post yesterday. You have a sad situation on your hands for sure. I really encourage the two of you to sit down with FFIL in all of this and talk with him. Even though he puts up with her, he sounds like a reasonable man and may be abel to give you guys some good counsel.
I completely understand why you don’t want her there, but keep an open mind regarding what will happen if you DON’T invite her and what those repercussions will be.
Post # 7
If your FI is fine with her not being there, don’t invite her!
Post # 8
@jbbs1222: I just read your other post. Do not invite this woman to your wedding, she will RUIN it.
Post # 9
OMG we are in the same sitatuion with the same wedding date!! LOL