(Closed) Don’t want to hurt feelings…

posted 6 years ago in Music
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@HappilyEverAfter54: Ugh, that’s a sticky spot (especially since they’re so persistant). I’d call them/visit them in a few days, or if they bring it up again, I’d mention that you’re just not comfortable using friendors (if you’re not using them in other places like cake/photog, etc).

I’ve had to just politely say that I just want them to have the most fun possible, and I want to be able to enjoy spending a little down time with them, not having them work or have responsibilities. I also wouldn’t want to compromise a friendship due to a mishap or a difference of opinion on the big day where I’ll likely be a bit stressed. A vendor can complain about me with co-workers the next day, or I can request/demand money back from a DJ’s whose speakers bust or doesn’t perform up to contract, but Thanksgiving or the next NYE party won’t be strained. Most people understood that, and even if they were still a little disappointed they were nice about it and we all moved on.

I hope it goes well. It’s always a bummer to be put in a situation like that.

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