- 7 years ago
- Wedding: October 2010
Good Morning Bees!
I just wanted to follow up on my saga with the startling news that my soon to be husband fathered a child 2.5 years ago and we both just learned of it…..
Paternity test proved positive.
Soon to be ex husband of the lovely woman who delivered such news wants to remain on birth certificate and is fighting for full custody….NOT GONNA HAPPEN BUT….this is great news for us because my husband will not be obligated to pay child support. They will remain the child’s parents and legal guardians forever.
We will have visitation and will work that out with the mother.
She will have little involvement in our lives.
I started therapy last friday and feel good that I’m taking this situation and using it to get even healthier by putting the demons that it is bringing up for me down FOR GOOD!
And most importantly, we are in great shape, my FI and I! We have talked and cried and loved our way through this jarring news and are stronger for it and are focussing on our wedding, our marriage and our amazing life. How this child will fit in will be a work in progress.
Thank you again for all of your empathy and words of encouragement…you helped more than you can ever know!
19 DAYS and counting!